Me and my ex-boyfriend were really good friends for about 2 years before we started dating. I would say we were best friends. We were attracted to one another but we were both afraid that a relationship was going to ruin our friendship. However we eventually got together. It was good at first but after a while our situations changed and we felt that it was best that we go beack to being friends so we could both concentrate on ourselves. We were still cool for a long period after that, then he started acting funny. He would try to make me jealous sometimes by mentioning other girls or doing things like that. Then for some reason we just stoppped talking. Now that we have a few classes together we see each other practically everyday. When classes first started we would talk and text each other and things went back to normal. Now he will look dead at me sometimes and wont say anything. Then he'll call out of the blue and want to talk for hours. I'm confused. Why is he doing this?
2006-11-13 07:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relationships are complicated...period.
Instead of investing your time and mental energy trying to figure him out, I would take time to focus on the things that make you happy or things that deserve more attention.
2006-11-13 08:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by jasonsmithmusic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it could one of two things...1.) He is not really sure STILL how to act like your friend or 2.) He misses being your boyfriend and he really doesn't know how to tell you. Being that you 2 are so close I would definitely take the first step and talk to him and find out whats bothering him, and if he doesn't want to talk about it the only thing you can do is be a good friend to him and act like everything is fine to assure him your not feeling weird about the whole situation. Good Luck!!
2006-11-13 08:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl same thing happened to me! He maybe in he's heart felt you were made for each other but maybe you thought it was uncomfertable. It's so confusing the best thing to do is try and renew the friendship level
2006-11-13 08:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kaitlin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's confused and has no idea what to do. I would generally say mixed signals means he's not that into you or is playing with you. I don't think this is the case here. I think he is, based on what little you said, and my general vibe is that he IS indeed into you and does not know how to address it with you.
Ask him directly where he is at with you and your friendship.
2006-11-13 08:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy like you he is not comfortably just being Friends with you he wants to have relationship with you, give the guy a chance
2006-11-13 08:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by ahsyam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he still likes you as more than a friend and he wants to yank your chain hoping that you two will get back together.
2006-11-13 08:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems you have both some comunication problems...why not tlk to him about this issue ....frankly ..I suggest you both find a cooling period...say two to three months...no talking...and go from there ownwards
2006-11-13 08:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by serengeti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, he still likes you. I remember this mopey phase. Boys are stupid. In hindsight, men aren't much better.
2006-11-13 08:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋