I have been dating this guy for a very short time. We were intimate and I think I let me emotions run wild and I pushed him away. I have had issues with pushing guys away because I want a serious relationship. I brought up an issue which now I think is kinda petty and I should have let him make up his mind to do on his own. I think I have ruined a relationship that had the potential of being great. what can I do to make up for this. I already apologized for the things I have done , but I don't think it was enough. He has stopped answering my phone calls and texts. I am very depressed what should I do. And I am not a teenager I am in my twenties as well as the man I am speaking of. Please give whatever adive you can. Thank you.
2006-11-13 07:55:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he may have been just using me so please help I need some advice.
2006-11-13 08:07:27 · update #1
Well, since you already told him how sorry you are and everything... it is up to HIM to decide what to do next. You have to give him space so he can figure this out. If you keep trying to talk to him to fix it, it'll just push him away even more. Just give him time.
If it doesn't work out, it will be alright.
God has a plan for you. He will give you the one in His time.
All you can really do is learn from this experience and use it to build the future.
Well.. if you think he may have been using you, don't you think you're better off WITHOUT him?
2006-11-13 07:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been intimate with man after a short time, then you get emotional, honey many women make this mistake, do not call him or text him any more, maybe he will call eventually, but the next time get to know them a litter better and longer, play hard to get that is what reels them in so when you are finally ready make it so good he will be calling you, i don't see how you ruined a good relationship there was none. You have all the time in the world don't rush it, gosh you are in your twenties enjoy your freedom while it last.
2006-11-13 18:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter and send to him and tell him your sorry for pushing him away you were scare but you want to make it up and really be there for him good luck 2 U
2006-11-13 15:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space and spend some time with a therapist. You have to know where this is coming from to fix it.
BASED ON YOUR UPDATE: If you think he's using you, you're probably right. Walk away.
Good luck to you.
2006-11-13 15:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your going to have to get over him. he not texing you or talking to you then you should move on with your life. i mean i bet you can find some other guy better than him. but remeber not to pressure the next guy your with. or you can take a break of dating other guys.
2006-11-13 16:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋