what is wrong with her and should i wait.
2006-11-13 07:50:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be sexual compatible. Get rid of the ice queen. If she's not horny now, she won't be when you get married.
2006-11-13 07:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Rockford 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Nothing is wrong. She is going by old fashioned standards. Which would you per fer, a woman who has slept will tons of guys and has had venereal diseases in the past, and a woman who values herself so much that she is saving herself for her wedding night. I find it refreshing. She wants you to know that she loves you because of the person you are not because she feels all tingly from the great sex. If you are worried about whether the sex will be good cause you have to wait, it will be if you love her. Having sex with someone you love is a great turn on and ends up being the best sex ever. Sex is just a part of a relationship but too many times people base their relationship on that very thing. So when you are like seventy years old you will still have that connection you have now because it was based on your love and not the sex.
2006-11-13 15:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For starters, if you love her - what does it matter? You should want to wait.
Second of all, I "taught" an abstinence program to middle school kids when I was in high school. One example we were taught to use was the masking tape. The first time, the two stick together really well - in fact they're almost inseperable. However, if you stick one piece to something else (or both pieces to different objects) - then they never stick together like they did that first time. To some people, sex is a way of becoming closer to their partner. They want to know that it meant something which is why some want to wait until their wedding night.
2006-11-13 15:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes you should wait! She wants to have sex with only one person for the rest of her life and she wants to be commited in marriage when she does it. She could get pregnant.. that's the difference. She wants to have a family after she is married.
2006-11-13 15:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by sanj 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with her. Its what she believes in and she is sticking to it. That shows she wont give up what she believes in and if you love her then respect what she wants, sex is not the most important thing in the relationship. If you love her wait.
2006-11-13 15:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she is trying to avoid being what you name states!! She has morals and values her self!!! If I were her I would run the other way if this is how you feel!! Do you even respect yourself? Apparently you can't wait by the sounds of it. Take a cold shower and get over it!! There is more to life than getting your rocks off!!
2006-11-13 15:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Niecy 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Although sex is just one part of a relationship, she's gonna be the only woman you are with for the rest of your life (in theory). If she's no good before you get married, at least you can back out if she really sucks.
If you find out after you marry, it could drive you crazy and or cost you money. Try before you commit is the best bet. If she can't handle it, you have some thinking to do.
2006-11-13 15:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
The difference is you will be pure...sex will be better when you're married if you respect yourself and her and wait.
nothing is wrong with her. It's admirable. If you love her wait. If you can't then you don't deserve her.
2006-11-13 16:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by Katie Beth 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nothng wrong with her. She is waiting until you make the ultimate commitement before she will make the ultimate connection. If she's doing it because she wants to save herself for her spouse and life partner then you should defintiely wait.
2006-11-13 15:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by fruninto 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
well if you love her and u r sure u want to spend your life with her, you have to wait, if u dont love her and u think marrying is the best choice you got to tell her
2006-11-13 15:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by stargirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She just wants to stay pure for you until you are married, because if you wait, then it will be alot more special then if you give it away carelessly...she's smart, stick with her...
2006-11-13 15:57:12 · answer #11 · answered by ~*.:Kyla:.*~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋