2006-11-13 07:49:26 · 28 answers · asked by Islander 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That one is over the top. My wife would have a foot print on the back of her pants to remember me by. That is, she would be kicked right out the door.
2006-11-13 07:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one, I'm sorry to hear that. You will probably never "forget" but it is possible to "forgive" him.
Whether or not you choose to "accept" him, his "infidelity" and his "child" is a different matter. While you may be able to "forgive" him, you may decide not to stay with him. This is entirely up to you.
I think it's better to "forgive" someone if you can, than to hold that anger and hurt "inside" where it only ends up hurting you. I guess a lot depends on how "sorry" he is and what the circumstances were that lead to his "cheating" in the first place.
No matter what decision you make, it's a very difficult situation (especially with a child involved). You have my prayers, I wish you the best whatever you decide.
2006-11-13 07:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had child with another person while with you don't forgive him only because once you cheat on someone you are suppose to love it does not stop. Even if he was the one to tell you about the affair. He was more worried about you finding out so to make it look like he is really sorry he had to let the cat out of the bag. But no matter what he is your childs father and never push him out of the childs life.
2006-11-13 08:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by bert_ind20042000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can change. I know that, because someone close to me turned their life around, and has been walking the straight and narrow for over 5 years. It's up to you to forgive. But you won't ever be able to forget, because there is a new and living person now. The other woman's baby. It was your baby's father's mistake. Not the other woman's baby. Please try to remember that.
2006-11-13 07:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I wouldn't forgive, because this tells me that he can't be honest throughout the whole entire relationship! Relationships are based on respect, honor, acceptance, honesty, trust, and having more open communication! If he was honest from the beginning about having a child from a previous relationship, I would've understood that. But since he kept that under wraps, move on! Good luck!
2006-11-13 08:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him, because you two have a child. And then leave his A--! I mean cheating ok, but getting somebody pregnant? How stupid is this guy? Do you really what to spend the rest of your life with dummy??
You deserve better. Get out, splitt the responsiblitay for your child. And then get somebody who wants you and only you.
2006-11-13 07:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by eidunotno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always forgive, but never forget. It is messed up that he has aother child, but you ca't hold it against him forever. If you decide to stay with him then of course you will have to forgive him,but it's only fair that you never bring it back up. Discuss it once and the let it go.
2006-11-13 08:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats entirely up to you, what is he worth? How does he treat you? Do you NEED to stay with him ($)? Is this something that happened once or will probably happen again? Whatever the answers to those questions are, you have to make the decision to stay or go, however... if you choose to stay you must decide to forgive him ENTIRELY and COMPLETELY. There is no point in staying and trying if you end up holding this indiscrtion against him forever, it will only make both of you miserable.
2006-11-13 07:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want too? People are human and sometimes make mistakes. Men especially do not connect sex with love. He may love you but found relief somewhere else. So, do you want to start over? Is he worth saving? If so, then do both forgive and forget.
2006-11-13 07:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way in hell you will ever beable to forget as long as you are with this man you will see the child and he will have to pay child support. If he aint around you still won't beable to forget or forgive but it won't be right in front of you
2006-11-13 07:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would never forgive OR forget.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Married men cheat on their wives of 50 years. To some men, commitment is a relative term.
2006-11-13 07:51:18 · answer #11 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋