I believe our relationship is over. Now, my couple is threatening me that if I leave him he'll commit suicide ... What do I do? I'm desperate and I would welcome any comments.
2006-11-13 07:46:39 · 16 answers · asked by Paulo L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to leave, make sure you tell him the head game isnt working on you! also tell him he needs help!
2006-11-13 07:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
leave him and disappear...cut off all contact. It may hurt him but it's the best for the long run. Suicide is a lame threat to try and keep someone around. He needs serious help though...because if he is serious about suicide and he goes through with it, it will haunt you for the rest of your life. Just ask my x girlfriend.... her x after me committed suicide, not because of her but he was very depressed and chose the selfish path out. F-ing jerk..she has been emotionally scarred ever since.
2006-11-13 07:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by fukin_wazted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. If he commits suicide, that would be that individuals fault, NOT yours. In fact, staying with that person makes it worse. He is threatening you and that is NOT a relationship you want to stay in!!!!! Be firm and look out for YOU.
2006-11-13 07:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Don't allow yourself to be manipulated. Tell your bf that he is SICK. You aren't worth his life. If he offs himself, its not your fault, he is a sick puppy. He would have done it anyway, or worse, he could do you. Its on the news every other day about one sicko or another, don't be the next victim. Dont try to help him gget over it or nothing. GET OUT, save yourself. Tell his parents of his intentions so that they can intervene. Let everyone that you know about this situation. Don't take this jerk lightly. SO WHAT, he will hate you, but he will be alive!
2006-11-13 07:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex did that crap to me and did actually attempt it at one time. I finally got sick of hearing the excuse and left without ever looking back. He grieved the end of the relationship, found another woman that is almost his twin, and is very happy.
You have to look out for you.
The vast majority of people who have actually committed suicide never told anyone that they were going to do it. So I seriously doubt he means it...he is just pulling at strings to keep you with him.
2006-11-13 07:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him anyways he wont do it its just a deperate attempt to get you to stay dont fall for it ive been in the same situation he hit me i was leaving, he said he could kill himself ..i stayed which was stupid because for another hear i went thru mental abuse and physical abuse"if u can call it that because i hit back" and in the end i left with nothing but the clothes on my back and 2 outfits for me and 10 for my child i had to start completely over i left behind thousands of dollars worth of stuff that my mother and i had payed for and he still never killed himself not that i would have cared anyways at that point
2006-11-13 07:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by tabethamarie2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an annonimous "mental hygene" arrest.That means that they will be taken in for an evaluation & released that same day.This person needs mental help & the sooner,,the better before something really bad happens.
2006-11-13 07:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to blackmail attempts he is an insecure type of person and you dont need that. dont feel guilty about going if you feel you cant stay in this relationship. read tips on relationships and more on this site to help you more
2006-11-13 07:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by yummy _ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation to be in. That is selfish on his part. The best thing for you i think is just to cold turkey.
2006-11-13 07:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by betafish 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is tell them how you feel. They are responsible their reaction,not you.Better to let them go than to stay in one sided relationship.
2006-11-13 07:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by mopjky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋