ok, first off, i´m not sure if he is aware i look at his fotolog.
i was wondering why my boyfriend never posts in my fotolog or writes anything about me in his fotolog although he did for his previous girlfriend which he claims he left her because he didn´t love her...but i looked at his previous photos from when they were together and he wrote under them that he loved her...but he doesn´t do that for me...
he seems to avoid posting in mine which is odd(he has never posted me) and when i saw his recent photo today, there was one post(first and only for that pic) from this girl and i followed it and i found that he was posting POEMS about how beautiful she is in her fotolog...o.0like for ALMOST EVERY photoo.0 and no, he doesn´t put pics of me in his fotolog either...
he will kiss me infront of his guy and girl friends and when we go to dances he will like brag about me to everyone since so many guys like me...
also, he doesn´t write anything about me in his messenger heading thing too...
a lot of his friends are my friends too and they tell me he loves me...
probably thousands of people in our city know we´re dating...
he´ll kiss me in public and stuff...
he NEVER even sends me his fotolog...
i have posted in his so u´d think he would know i know about his fotolog...
and like an example of something he wrote for this girl on her fotolog would be something like(i forgot exactly how it goes but something like)
"i hear your song and your misty voice...your beautiful eyes and soft, flowing gorgeous black hair ...you swim in the tranquil waters singing your beautiful song (as a mermaid does)but i can´t give in. you are so stunning, kisses, your(insert his name here)(he writes "kisses" for lots of people though...)
maybe i´m just digging 2 deep?¿:S
or is there truely something fishy goin´ on here?¿:So.0
pleeze helpo.0;;;,
thnx:)
xaooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo:)
2006-11-13 07:46:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i confronted him about the poem after asking him if he wrote poetry and he said he didn´t write poetry and then i sent him one of the poems he wrote for the other girl and he said it was because he felt sorry for her and was trying to encourage her. do u believe this??? or was that just an excuse¡??thnx xao:)
2006-11-13 11:30:53 · update #1
If those posts are fairly recent on the fotolog, then the answer is simple: leave him! His friends may not even know what he's doing because he knows it is wrong and that it would get back to you. I would ask him about it, fotologs are public right? So, you wouldn't be digging in his private stuff. But he may lie to you. If you have to question your relationship, it probably is best to move on and find someone that will write love poems to you.
2006-11-13 07:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do the math. know tell me what are you doing snooping. if he did not invite you to his fotolog then you should have respected him and stayed out . but know that you know what are you going to do? either he really likes his ex or he just does not care that you look in his fotolog, if you have posted and he knows it's you and he did not respond to yours then, i guess that is something he wants without you. I'm not sure about the poems and things and you say everyone knows he loves you and he is affectionate in public. i guess he is just trying to teach you to stay out of his personal space . you had no right to check his fotolog with out him knowing . lol
2006-11-13 15:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have been with my better half for 25 years, since we were 15 years old. I have never spent any time, money, or resources on cultivating a relationship with another. That does not mean I never email someone else, have never appreciated sweet perfume, or even had a crush on someone but my actions have always been centered on the one I love. His actions are suspect. I do not believe it is better to love and lost than to never have loved at all. Do not settle for such B.S. Someone who truly cares about you will leave no doubt in your mind!
2006-11-13 15:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mere Exposure 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say that maby he doesn't love you as much as he makes it look like, a true love is between two people and only two people, if you truely care about someone, you remain faithful to them
I have been dating my girlfriend now for 9 months and i will always love her and only her.
he is simply up to no good. he wouldn't be posting poems on another girls foto page if he truely loved you
2006-11-13 15:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by ffpdfirefighter2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun, youre digging too deep, and if it bothers you so much then ask him noone else can answer what he is thinking
2006-11-13 15:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be mad. is this recent activity or something from a while back? i know i wouldnt be happy if my guy did that to me.
2006-11-13 15:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kid stuff...
dump him..like you said...so many other guys like you
right?
And since he brags about you....he'll have nothing to brag about.
2006-11-13 15:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
zzzzz, huh?......oh,sorry, I nodded out there!
2006-11-13 15:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋