But why do I always end up hurt. Am I destined to get hurt all the time or I just don't know which men would never hurt me,,, Honestly, I'm one inch of turning into one of those women who don't want men at all, Spinsters
P.S: To Charity: No, I don't want to go to the party... Especially to hook up with a guy...
2006-11-13 07:39:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I totaloly need therapy
2006-11-13 07:40:13 · update #1
totally need one
2006-11-13 07:40:36 · update #2
Who said not all men are bad ?? They lied to you. Now that you know they are ALL bad learn how to use it to your advantage.
2006-11-13 07:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel about getting hurt all the time but all you gotta do i keep looking for the right one!!! he's out there for everyone even you and me
if you really need therapy talk to me i might not be qualified but i can give advise and help some
2006-11-13 07:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Shortie<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I just got divorced a year ago and I've been dating a guy that I'm head over heals for and he knows it and hurts me all the time. Well I realized that I'm better than that and have to think of myself. Once I put myself first things changed for us for the better. Think of yourself and know that you are better than being hurt. Keep your head up. Only you can change the things in your life that you don't kine.
2006-11-13 08:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by dawn g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer,
Dont sweat it so much hon, the right guy 4 you will come along, most likely when you least expect it,it could be at church, a family/freind gathering or who knows what, i hope you dont
become one of those ladies you spoke of!!!!!!!!!!its a real shame
when any girl/woman resorts to that because of any guy, and my being a guy myself , hates to see that , it leaves a lot of potental mates in the spot where there at,away from us good guys that are sincere about there relationships,, just hang in there hon your gonna be just fine kitten!!!!!!!!!!good luck to ya in your search for the right guy for you,,,,stinger5906
2006-11-13 08:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably are very vulnerable after you end each relationship and you are blind to see the failure you date next. It's ok to make mistakes, but there are good guys out there! I was in your shoes at one time and what really helped me was to stay single and just be my own person. It made me so much stronger and I regained my sight to see people for what they really were. A good guy will come your way, just be patient.
2006-11-13 07:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probable it is because you are looking in the wrong place, all men are not the same just give yourself some time before talking to someone else
2006-11-13 07:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Little D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem the only way to find a good man is to keep looking. thats the only thing that works. A man isn't going to just fall into your lap like the movies.
2006-11-13 07:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have to go through all the "baddies", in that way you'll learn how to appreciate a good thing when you have it.....ther's nothing wrong with you dear, the right one will come along and you'll even forget that you once asked this ques..
PS: love comes to those who believe in it, don't give up hope and GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-13 07:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by angelic_234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give in too easily and stop trying to be the perfect one for whoever you are with at the time.be yourself always.if they don't like you as you are move on quickly,someone will come along one day.
2006-11-13 07:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by freebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try taking more time to get to know a guy as friends before diving into a relationship. find out what he is really like, find out what his values are..
2006-11-13 07:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋