i want to go on the pill, but im not sure how to go about it, i DONT want my parents to know, or any of my family for that fact, whats the sensible age, who do i phone, what do i say?
2006-11-13 07:32:23 · 9 answers · asked by tnt_bbe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not ashamed, the reason i wont tell my parents is because they dont agree in having the pill and stuff, but i really want to go onto it because me and my bf are really close and i live at a wierd neighbourhood.......................
2006-11-13 07:37:12 · update #1
my age is 13, im 14 in about 3 weeks
2006-11-13 07:40:40 · update #2
Well you need to go to a clinic in your town and talk to a doctor personally, they will accept you no matter what age and will go about it on a personal level. They are very confidential. When I went they respected my wishes and didn't tell my parents noting. So go to somewhere like playing parenthood...
Good Luck with that
XOXO
2006-11-13 07:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age 14 is a good age. Your parents don't have to know, depending on where you live, there are free clinics around that will help you. Look in your phone book under the yellow pages or wherever you can find family planning. And tell them that you would like to make an appt. to get on birth control. Don't be ashamed. Better protected at any age than none at all.
2006-11-13 15:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anastashia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
planned parenthood, if you want to pill just so you can have sex, i would seriously recommend just using condoms because if you take the pill for too long of a period of time there is a chance that you will become sterile. plus it doesn't protect for STDs which is a much bigger problem than babies are. If your young your gonna wanna take it when your older and married so you dont have to keep using condoms with your husband, so thats my advice!
oh and if your having sex as young as you are, than your probably gonna start smoking too, if you don't already and you are absolutely not supposed to smoke on the pill very bad health risk
2006-11-13 15:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you are ashamed of it, you shouldn't be doing it. You must sit down with your parents and explain that you want to go on the pill. It is only one of many uncomfortable situations you will face in your lifetime. But if you aren't ready for that uncomfortable situation, then you don't have the level of emotional maturity that you need to have a healthy sexual relationship.
2006-11-13 15:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am only 24, and consider myself up on the times, but hearing that a 13 year old child is even considering having sex is enough to give me a heart attack! My baby sister is 14 and I would kill any little boy that even attempted! Sweetheart, you only have your virginity until its gone, think long and hard. I lost it at 15, to a guy that I ended up dating for 5 years, but still regret it completely.
2006-11-13 15:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least 16. Call a doctor's office and find out how old you have to be to get a prescription on your own. Varys by state. Health Clinics have doctors.
2006-11-13 15:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age. Contact your local planned parenthood, just remember that they could be found. Remember that STD's still spread and it is not 100% reliable.
2006-11-13 15:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your old enough to be having sex, you are old enough to go on the pill. it is best to go to a familly planning clinic such as ladders or the junction. take a friend, or boyfriend with you for support if you need it.
2006-11-13 15:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 is a good age.
2006-11-13 15:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by jayfrezzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋