i have had this crush on this girl for a while now, she knows i like her, i know she likes me, we have told each other. We haven't done that much for a while, and its confusing me on whether or not she is still interested. She is a very busy girl, i plan on getting into a conversation (online) about regret, then asking her if she has ever regretted anything. I will then proceed to say that I only have one regret..not kissing you yet.. I know im putting myself out there, but the wait is becoming unbearable, i dnt really have the time to worry about this, I have midterms, but i have to let her know this... is this a good plan?
2006-11-13 07:27:42 · 12 answers · asked by joel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have a part time job at the same place, we dnt go to the same school, she has 3 jobs
2006-11-13 07:30:35 · update #1
It sounds good to me. I would only do it if I KNEW she liked me, though. I almost did a similar thing with this guy I like, but I changed my mind because I wasn't sure how he felt. BE CAREFUL, and plan what you'll do if she doesn't respond the way you want her to!
2006-11-13 07:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by aishabe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. im being honest w/you that is a really tacky thing to say.
to begin with you dont know if shes that into you yet...shes made no effort to get w/you, and usually if a girl really likes a guy and he lets her know he likes her, she getS EXCITED AND WANTS TO TALK TO HIM.
try to get ahold of her and talk to her. just be yourself dont be all lovey-dovey-i-regret-i-havnet-kissed-you ****. b/c you dont know if she is that into you.
this the your game plan: be casual, say hello. then when the conversation is over, you wait for her to contact you again(asuuming she has your number)
if you keep calling her all the time, she has you trained, which is bad, b/c you want things to be a equal. be careful.
and dont say ANYTHING else like "i regret not kissing you".....thats only on the list of tacky pick up lines!!!
2006-11-13 07:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by StinkyDec19 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay hon, here's my theory. Ask her to meet you for coffee or something, then just do it! Don't tell her, just do it. Trust me it'll go better that way, then no awkward anticipation, just spontaneity.
2006-11-13 07:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by julesramsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online? are you serious?? dude be a man and just go ask her out and kiss her. you know she'll say yes!
2006-11-13 07:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by jimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it...because if you don't, you'll never know. and once you find out you'll be able to move on--either by pursuing things or finding someone else.
2006-11-13 07:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by bosox.girl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would mealt my heart, im in a similar situation but vice versa. and i know that i would love my guy to say that to me.
2006-11-13 07:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by barbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like it. It's really sweet.
2006-11-13 07:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a great plan......good luck!
2006-11-13 07:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by kweenb2327 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for it
2006-11-13 07:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by sofitaps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure I don't see why not
2006-11-13 07:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by yadira m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋