Ok here is the problem I just started dating this guy who asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes because he has been a great guy. we have only been dating for about a week and have been bf/gf for like two days here is my concern. If he asked me to be his girlfriend why would he still have his status as "single" on his myspace page. I know its petty , but if he doesn't claim me on there does he claim me elsewhere. I have been introduced to all of his best friends so I am very confused why when I bring this up he chooses to ignore it. It makes me think he is second guessing his choice or he only wanted me for what he could get out of me and since he got it he doesn't want me anymore.Or could it be that I am so paranoid about being hurt again that I am overreacting? I thought we had a real connection and it seemed that way until I asked him about this. Maybe this is just how he reacts I really don't know cause we haven't known each other in a relationship setting very long.Please Help!
2006-11-13 07:26:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't say anything about sex. He is in his early 20's as am I. We were both looking for serious relationships so I am very confused when he tells me he really likes me and then ignores this is this his way of asserting his freedom?
2006-11-13 07:35:05 · update #1
Hey dont worry about it. The same thing happened to me with my boyfriend of 7 months, he had his myspace status on single and at first i really didn't care but than i realized that alot of people notice those things. I had mine on single too, and all these people kept asking me if i was still with my boyfriend. I never knew that everyone looked at your status sooo much. So anyway I changed my status to "in a relationship" and i than i talked to him and told him that he should change his because all these people were asking me if we were still together and it was kinda embarassing. So anyway he finally changed it. And it wasn't a big deal asking him to change it either. So my advice to you is tell him how u feel, and dont worry its not a big deal. Just ask him casually.
2006-11-13 07:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lady B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being paranoid no matter what this guy tells you. This guy is sending you a very clear signal that you're his girlfriend until someone better comes along--and he's looking for someone better. Do not let him tell you it's not a big deal or that it's just "too much trouble" or "not worth the energy" to change this. On the other hand, it sounds like you two became exclusive wayyyyy too fast--see, this just proves that you don't really know what this guy is all about yet--how could you in a single week?
2006-11-13 07:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he?? Maybe he has not updated his my-space in a while and he has yet to do it. Or maybe he still wants people to think he is still on the market. You have every right to be upset, and feel as if he is not claiming you, and he is only looking for one thing. Words of advice. Men are dumber than a mud fence post!!!! Men are weird!! Good Luck!!
2006-11-13 07:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by Niecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dated a week, became gf/bf two days ago and already had sex. Hmmmmm sounds like you might want to establish a full relationship first next time.
2006-11-13 07:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say its only been 2 days? Give him a chance to change the status. You sound like a girl who doesnt give a guy any space. Leave him alone and let him do it on his own without you nagging him. I feel sorry for him already. 2 days and you already have him on your leash. Pathetic.
Oh and by the way? he is single unless u 2 got married.
2006-11-13 07:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he probably doent even realize it says single in the first place. or hes got a myspace chick. just get on there and leave in girlfriend kinda comments
2006-11-13 07:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by i_like_bears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeeeez, you guys aren't married, whats he supposed to put his status as married, and besides why does anyone have these myspace pages? its for fun, making friends if it bothers you that much talk to him about it, relax!!
2006-11-13 07:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your overreacting. You haven't been together that long, maybe his just taking it one step at a time.Men have funny ways of showing their uncertainty.relax
2006-11-13 07:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by laChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just hasn't had time to change his myspace. just talk to him about it over the phone, in person, text message, or IM.
2006-11-13 07:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
myspace? get a life! real men don't have them
2006-11-13 07:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by thinkGREEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋