I've been dating this guy off/on for 3+ years. He works in construction and has a job where every few months he travels to a new city/state for a few months. Well he is now in North Carolina (I'm in Texas) he has offered to make all the arrangements for me to come and visit him. Does he really like me or is it just sex? That's a long way for just sex. We havent' seen each other but 3 times in the past 4 months, before that it had been over 2 years since we've even talked.
2006-11-13 07:25:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we used to date, we dated for several months and then he accepeted a new job where he moves all the time. We hadn't talked in a few years when all of a sudden I hear from him again. It took awhile before I agreed to see him. I actually was surprised when i heard from him again once he moved to North Carolina. Was really surprised that he would offer to make the arrangements for me to go and visit him. I'm not going to lie the sex is really amazing even after a couple of years of not seeign each other.
2006-11-13 08:15:05 · update #1
3 hours. Of course i always get greeted with a really amazing kiss.
2006-11-13 08:35:16 · update #2
I doubt it's just sex, cause he can get that no matter what city he is working in. A woman has a very powerful gut, what is your gut telling you? How does he treat you when you two are together? Does he call you often just to talk?
See men that are after one thing, don't care how your day was, don't care what's new in your life, they normally only call when they want to hook up. Trust me when I say, I have learned this the hard way.
Good luck to you. Go with your gut! : )
2006-11-13 07:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to be more than sex for him to dish out the money for you to come all that way to see him. He can get sex any where. Talk to him when you go visit him and see what he thinks and feel. If it is just sex a least you get a free trip and a good time from it.
2006-11-13 07:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off the sex and see what happens. If he sticks around, then it's you. If not, then it was just for the sex. But think of this, there are plenty of women in North Carolina. I have a feeling it is you he wants to see.
2006-11-13 07:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to tell, but I'm guessing it's mostly physical. the part that is confusing is that he will make all the arrangements for you to come visit...do that mean he'll pay for your trip? if you go to visit him, you should talk to him about it then and see where it's going.
2006-11-13 07:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by bosox.girl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want this crazy relationship? Why not be with someone you can spend more time with? I would talk to him about it and tell him you would like to be in a real relationship with someone you can spend more time with and see what he says.
2006-11-13 07:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy... do you do it 3 minutes after he comes to ur house or 3 hours.
2006-11-13 08:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by scott nj 23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to break this to you but you are not dating you are a BOOTY CALL
2006-11-13 07:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE JUST WANTS TO CLEAN HIS PIPES
2006-11-13 07:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by auetim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋