I casually dated someone in the Navy for three months before he was deployed. We never made anything official, due to the fact that he was being deployed for seven months. We have great chemistry, and he has taken to telling me he loves me. I felt the same way, but was scared to say so until he did. I know how "lonely" things can get over there, so I make sure to keep in touch and be the good friend that I am. I am just concerned that the 'love' he feels is more like being grateful and happy that I care. I want to believe that what we have is real, but I'm scared.
2006-11-13 07:17:02 · 5 answers · asked by GO NAVY! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I casually dated someone in the Navy for three months before he was deployed. We never made anything official, due to the fact that he was being deployed for seven months. We have great chemistry, and he has taken to telling me he loves me. I felt the same way, but was scared to say so until he did. I know how "lonely" things can get over there, so I make sure to keep in touch and be the good friend that I am. I am just concerned that the 'love' he feels is more like being grateful and happy that I care. I want to believe that what we have is real, but I'm scared. Is this something that is just helping him pass the time? Should I let my emotions run or remain reserved? Help!!!!!
2006-11-13 09:39:08 · update #1
use what ever he feels as a spring board when he comes home, in the mean time keep those letters coming to him ask questions. and let him get to know you, do not go big with the feelings, give and get information
2006-11-13 07:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems that you have probably made alot of his days much better. Thats awesome that you keep in contact with him, and when he returns, he will be very greatful to you. Keep hope, and pray for him and the other men over there protecting us and the rest of the world. You are doing something good, and Im sure you feel great about it. I know when he returns he will thank you for it.
2006-11-13 15:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared , you might loose him if he doesn't know how you feel . Seven months is a long time , but love can withstand alot of things , so stay in there and let him know how you feel , and what is waiting for him when he comes home.....
2006-11-13 15:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing is called watering seeds. You keep it up and be faithful and it will be stronger than it was when he left.Most girls do what ever they want when they man is gone like that and they come up with all kinds of reasons for why they did it.Show him that you are a women and don`t do what most do.When he sees that he`ll be so proud to say that`s my women that other people will see his gloww for miles.
2006-11-13 15:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him after he gets back let us take it slow, and renew our feelings, do not jump in and marry him after only 3-mo. who knows you maybe totally different people now, just take it slow and renew your relationship, and please tell him you are happy he is back in one piece
2006-11-13 15:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by connie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋