If not, What age were you whne you lost it? Was it with "the one?" or did you just take advantage of a good opportunity? Were you happy with the outcome or did you regret it after? Did you satisfy your mate or could you swear he/she feigned satisfaction to cater to your ego?
2006-11-13 07:16:51 · 26 answers · asked by dajyde 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too much fuss about virginity. Non-virgins make fun of people who haven't. Virgins think they are so righteous for not losing it. Blah blah blah. It's not that big of a deal. When it happens it happens. You're the same person afterwards as you were 47 seconds before.
2006-11-13 07:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jumbonaut 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Yes there are still virgins on this earth and yes i am one of them. I am not an old fashioned girl either i like to go out and party and other stuff. But i feel that if i ever had sex just to do it then i wouldn't feel good about myself. I think that a relationship doesn't NEED sex and that sex should not be a focal point. A true relationship should be about two people who really care about each other and once you get to that point then you can decide together if sex is an option or not. But these are just my views on the issue.
2006-11-13 15:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Tanya R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...There are still virgins. One of my closest friends is one. We'll be 30 in 2007. She's quite attractive too!
I am not. I took advantage of an opportunity when I was young. I SO could have waited. He was satisfied. I was thinking I could have waited!!! LOL
2006-11-13 15:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by GO NAVY! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not one of them, i lost it at age 16 with the "one" he was the onlkly guy i have ever been with, and 91/2 years later we are still together we have a beautiful son and another baby on the way we are not married, but why do we need a piece of paper telling us we are together and that we love each other?? He's satisfied me, and im sure i've satisfied him... we have never strayed....
~CHEERS!!~
2006-11-13 15:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I'm 18 and I'm still a virgin and i plan on keeping it that way for at least a little while longer. That doesn't mean i don't like to do other things. U can satisfy Ur man w/out having sex. I actually like performing oral and having it done to me.
2006-11-13 15:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy B. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! This is a great question, because it seems that the number is dwindling, fast. That's thanks in part to the age in which people are "experimenting" earlier in life and it's just so accepted by society now. Any way you put it, it's getting harder and harder to find them. I've given up on finding a guy that has yet to give it up. But I'm proud to say I'm still a virgin!!
PS- It is possible to find attractive women who are virgins!
2006-11-13 15:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by burnttea06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a virgin. I've had sex with one guy, and I was 17 at the time. we went out for a few months and I felt really strongly about him at the time...I didn't regret it, but it was disappointing because after that he never wanted to do anything but have sex--like we couldn't hang out like we used to because he'd just want to have sex when he saw me. I did satisfy him, but now I wish I hadn't lol
2006-11-13 15:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by bosox.girl23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why? do you only want virgins? I lost mine at 20 and it was a huge disappointment and could never be satisfied with him. I am one of those woman who is senstive to the feelings and emotions and what is going on with the guy and this affects my drive.
2006-11-13 15:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by elflocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are not one why are you looking for one. Need something clean to make dirty? Think she'll only belong to you and not be like you?
I was seventeen and I had loved him for 4 yrs. Turns out the fact that I was a virgin and made him wait was the only thing he had liked. The chase.
Whats your reason for searching?
2006-11-13 15:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a virgin. I lost it to my husband, got married early had a couple of kids. He was totally the guy for me so I am glad I lost it to him and was able to have his kids. He passed away earlier this year though, right after my 20th birthday, I was pregnant and everything so it was really hard but I am glad I lost it too him and got my kids out of it.
2006-11-13 15:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋