Cheating Girlfriend????

Question

My GF is almost obsessed with thinking that I’m cheating I’m not but there is no convincing her. I've always herd that people that are cheating always acuse their partner of cheating. Could this be the case here? I attribute it to her last relationship, the guy cheated on her repeatedly and now she is convinced that no man could turn down a piece of a.s.s We could just some chose not too. Ladies what do you think is the case? Is she cheating or just traumatized??

Answer 1

Shes definitely traumatized.. and she's insecure. Its your job to make her feel secure. But she HAS to understand that she HAS to have TRUST in you, if not, the relationship is gonna go to the pits. GL

Answer 2

If the guy that she was with before cheated on her, she might be traumatized. Is sad, because I was cheated on too and like her I also think that every guy is the same and that they won't turn down any other HOOD RAT!

It might be really frustrating to have her accuse you of something you are not doing all the time. She needs to see for her self that you are not. I hope it doesn't take long before she stops and realize not all men are the same. Cuddle her more often, send her cute messages, tell her how much you care for her, and do surprising stuff to show her the only one on your mind is her.

Good luck.

Answer 3

One of the reasons women today feel that their boyfriend/spouse is cheating on them is because cheating today is so common. It's hard enough keeping a relationship solid, without temptation lurking everywhere.

Personally, I would suggest making her feel that she's the only woman in the world. Try not to look at other pretty woman, even if you're not interested.

Be patient with her as she's had a bad past. I know someone who's fiancee cheated on her, but after a loooong reconciliation process, they're very strong today and married.

If she has the tendancy to flirt, then she's probably cheating, or thinking about it and feels guilty.

I still think many guys are scum and anyone who is in a serious relationship only has one chance not to cheat.

Answer 4

I think she might just be traumatized, women who have had a man cheat on them more than once and more than one man can tend to think that their are no good men out there, and that ya'll are just a bunch of dawgs.

If you really like her hang int here for a bit longer. Maybe you can change her outlook, by treating her better than any other man ever has.

If you think she's the type who will cheat, then ditch her.

Answer 5

She could be cheating herself, or she could just be a little scared because of what happened in the past. My advice is to sit down with her and tell her I am not cheating on you, I know your ex did, but he didn't realize what he had in front of him. Tell her she is all you will ever need. Then I would tell her if you want us to make this work, you need to let this go. I would also tell her that she can't hold all men accountable for one man's actions. Good Luck.

Answer 6

it could be either....your gonna have to test her...."truth stands the test of time, lies are soon revealed"

This is how you test her:
let her know everytime you turn a girl down, so she knows that you are proud of yourself for making the right decision - this way she knows how often you get propositioned and that you are able to controll yourself.
tell her how much you care for her and that she is the best girl who has ever been in your life, and you love everything about her. (all the time for no reason)
answer you phone when she calls, and always let her know where you going and who your with, even if they are other girls, let her meet girls that you are friends with, introduce her to all the people who chill with as "my girlfriend" "i love her".

She definately shouldn't stress anymore if you do all that stuff. She will know that you have nothing to hide.
If she keeps actin weird than shes cheating on you, if she tries to manipulate you when you do those things than she's cheating on you. If she is suprised and happy and not cheating on you than it will put her mind @ ease and she will relax and trust you more.

Answer 7

Traumatized. She's been hurt, lied to, deceited and left to feel like a fool. My only suggestion is keep convincing her you'll never do that to her as long as she treats you with the same respect. The moment things get too hard, too complicated or too dramatic, kick her to the curb. Don't waste time if she's not gonna try.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

I've never cheated but have accused. I don't have a crystal ball to know if you are being honest. I'd rather use the word she's rightly leery not traumatized. :)

Answer 10

It hard for woman to trust men when it seems that men just want to sleep with everyone. She's probably not over the trauma. But tell her(nicely) to get with the program and work on her own self esteem issues.