He had booked a hotel room for the night (not a very nice one at that, but cost him a bit of money!) i couldnt stay for my own reasons, i explained and appologised for having to leave him there but i had to go! He said that if i left he would be disgusted at me for leaving him there and would never talk to me again if i did! I said that this would probably be the best thing for us to do because our relationship has had its fair share of ups and downs and complications to the point where i couldnt take it anymore and he was oblivious to it, despite trying to communicate my feelings to him - for him to say that things will change - and then for the relationship going back to the way it was!
Its been over a week now, i havent made contact and niether has he! He would always talk about moving in together and the future and i always seemed to go along with his needs without having mine met!
I now feel guilty for leaving him at the hotel like that and for things ending the way they did
2006-11-13 07:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by PinkCrystal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
really , you don't need that pressure and drama, especially in a relationship that is supposed to make you feel GOOD,
call his bluff and eff-ing leave him.
if he doesn't respect you for something like that, he's not going to respect you down the road.!
2006-11-13 07:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad for leaving him at the hotel. He would have left you there if he had to go for some reason. And if neither of you have made any contact in a week, then just try to forget about him.
2006-11-13 07:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't ask ahead of time if you wanted a hotel room, it's his problem. It sounds like he has a history of not caring about your feelings & if he's immature enough not to want any contact with you in the future, you are much better off without this selfish oaf. You can't make anyone else happy until you are happy. RUN! & don't call back.
2006-11-13 07:16:48 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya did the right thing. Never take an ultimatum. My wife gave me an ultimatum once. She wanted to have an affair and said that she was going to do it and if I wanted to throw away the marriage then that was my fault.
I threw the beeyotch out one month later.
You're better off without him. Never never never take an ultimatum. Your relationship with that person will be terrible if you do.
tom
2006-11-13 07:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him there's only one reason for a room is he wanted to get laid and moving in with him with no marriage is wrong way to go, sounds like he does not know how to treat a lady
2006-11-13 07:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by L J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey- i know u feel bad but you did the right thing-if u have had problems so far you will always have problems...if u feel super bad then write him a note saying u are sorry thigns ended the way they did but it's best for both of u and u hope he finds a great girl who is really truly his type and that u hope u can still be friends.....i hope everything works out for u girl
luv
~Ally
2006-11-13 07:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to feel guilty. Let it go.
2006-11-13 07:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel guilty
see a counselor . . .
it sounds like it's for the best . . . move on . . .
(ultimatum)
2006-11-13 07:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋