I have a girlfriend of 4 years. She had earlier on broken badly with her first boyfrieny which affected her so much. She says she loves me but the only thing we have done is go out and be together for long hours. She has asked more time before full commitment. I doubted her sincerity and and sought to find out and indeed she has no other man in her life, but 4 years is too much. Does she love me really or she is using me? Please advice before I miss the train
2006-11-13 07:11:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you guys are just buddies if the most you've done with her is go out for long hours. She's figuring "why buy the cow, when the milk is free". If you don't want a pal, get rid of her...
2006-11-13 07:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by hfacto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love and care for her you will waight for her till she is ready..If you know for a fact that there is no other man and she is not gay then maybe she does need a liitle time.You will know deep in your heart if she cares for you or not..Your heart will not lie to you.I dont listen to mine sometimes and we should.We just don't like to face the truth when we want things our way.If you have had a chance to talk to her and she says she just isn't ready but she wants to be with you, You better give her space and dont rush her cause then she will push you away. Believe me, you dont want that.I hope all works out for ya!
2006-11-13 15:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by ms. independent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be just friends? Maybe she is leaning on you for the support of a friend. If she can't make a committment you may have to let each other go and try to be supportive to each other as friends. She probably has trouble standing for herslf alone. so.. be brave and open the lines of communication
2006-11-13 15:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by elflocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend a good part of the near future asking questions, and getting real answers.if not move on
2006-11-13 15:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on she is holding on to you but will not commit ,life is too short to waste on a person who is not into you .
2006-11-13 15:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being alone for all the right reasons beats being with someone for all the wrong ones.
2006-11-13 15:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think not...
2006-11-13 15:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by yu g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋