Alright, for the first time I'm settling. Normally the women I have date were women who I was genuinely interested in. However, I'm a lonely bastard right now and I will take what I can get. I finding though that settling is more trouble than going for a chick that I like. Have you ever settled? Was your relationship successful? Was settling more trouble than it is worth?
2006-11-13 07:10:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never settle honey. There's always someone out there. You're just horny and bored. Don't settle for for less than you deserve.
2006-11-13 07:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by sxyalmond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've settled, and now I'm unsettled . It seems as when you are lonely is such a hard thing because you are use to being with someone, but if the person you are with is not making you happy and you can't be your self then is best to be alone. Is hard to find someone you can really settle with and be happy. But it takes time and patience. At this point it seems as if you have run out of patience and are wiling to take anything, but settling with someone for desperation is a big mistake. You wasted many opportunities, now make it right and find someone you are interested in and treat her well.
2006-11-13 07:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I settled for a girl I wasn't really attracted to, once, because I was lonely. Somehow, I convinced myself I loved her because I thought she was a sweet girl. So I looked past the fact that we were totally incompatible. Even when she stopped being sweet I still stuck around.Anyway, we spent three long, miserable years together.
Eventually we broke up. This time I conjured up an image in my head of what I wanted and held out for someone as beautiful, genuine, and interesting as I was able to imagine.
I am so much happeir now, having held out. My life is so much less complicated, I feel so much more accepted and loved, the sex is so much better....everything is better!
Settling is the worst mistake I ever made. It is much less trouble and much less frustrating, to be with someone you are TOTALLY into.
2006-11-13 07:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far I have never settled. The question is when you were in a relationship with the girls who you were genuinely interested in...how did that work for you?? Sometimes it could be beneficial to just get to know people you wouldn't otherwise get to know. Get to know different people and expand your horizon's.
2006-11-13 08:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i settled for 2 years, got depressed, never went out, hated life....broke up, got started having fun again, met a much better guy who likes all the this shitt i do...life is beautiful now...never settle cuz your lonely, thats just weak man!
2006-11-13 07:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never settle.
Try to change your attitude a little. You are sounding kinda negative.
2006-11-13 07:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If first isn't reliable or if second is much better ideal than second then its now not incorrect to get settle . one has authentic to decision what's optimal ideal for them . yet that decision shouldn't damage others .
2016-11-23 19:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by knab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I "settled" with my husband. At the time I was not sure he was a good "catch". Time has proven that I was a stupid silly woman and he is a jewel.
2006-11-13 07:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? no clue, maybe i need to read again.do you mean settling down to one person?
2006-11-13 07:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋