2006-11-13 07:06:43 · 31 answers · asked by Beth P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its just a question
2006-11-13 07:23:08 · update #1
Step back and give this person time to work out their problems with their spouse. If things can't be worked out, maybe they'll come back to you. In the meantime you should stay platonic.
2006-11-13 07:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by hfacto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is leave them alone. Four years ago I met a great guy, he was smart ran a company and traveled alot. We started seeing each other and everything was great, I even went on business trips with him. When I say he traveled alot I mean every week. He would even leave me his car and I would drop him off and pick him up from the airport. This went on for a year+ and I was in love with him and him with me. Then he stopped traveling so much and long story short I found out he had been married the whole time! With kids!! Not only did this rip my heart out but I felt like the worst person in the world! Trust me. Since you know this person is married, leave them alone. You will feel alot better about yourself in the end.
2006-11-13 07:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by zoelynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly nothing Ever comes out of a relationship such as this if the married man or woman has a thing for someone who is not the spouse. Acting on foolish lust urges hurt allot of people and eventually;;y you get attached and all goes array . Maybe you should try to find someone who has been single for awhile. There are plenty of people looking for someone just like you .
2006-11-13 07:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by La Babydoll 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well let them be responsibly enough to end their current relationship before they begin a new one. How you feel if you were the other one and they played you. Wouldn't you want to know before they make you look stupid. yes we all want that so treat others they way you want to be treated.
Stand your ground, and even if you really like that married person, give your self respect at the beginning of the relationship otherwise you will get played too.
2006-11-13 07:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with loving a person that is married. The problem is your actions. I have certain friends that are married and I love them with all my heart. I just never cross the line.
2006-11-13 07:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray. Pray for the lust to be removed from your mind. Pray for strength in honoring your vows to your spouse and the Lord. control your thoughts, You are not to look at an other with lustful eyes. FIX your marriage, Pray that all these thoughts turn to your spouse. Ignore the other person. Know that it was not the Lord who brought that person into your life. Never give up on HOPE, FAITH and LOVE...
2006-11-13 07:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hands off... they are married.
Being a divorced man whose (ex) wife cheated, I would say you should call the husband/wife of the person who is about to cheat and tell them anonymously, as soon as possible.
Don't destroy a family even if they say that their marriage is "loveless" or "hopeless" or anything else.
2006-11-13 07:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by bikeworks 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Always respect the sanctity of one's marriage and let them be. Besides a man/woman who is fooling around on their spouse is most definetly not going to take your relationship seriously.
2006-11-13 07:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same thing, though I don't think she loves me. Personally, i would back out now before you get feeling in there, so if something happens you can leave clean.
2006-11-13 07:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by marukus2k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them until they get a divorce. Even then I would think about all the baggage he/she comes with. You must really like him too keep pursing it, but be patient.
2006-11-13 07:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by Glee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋