the boys mother is in prison but is going to move where he is when she gets out should i put aside my feelings about her or stay where i am and stay out of it anybody with advise please help
2006-11-13 07:05:36 · 4 answers · asked by sarah c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well to me it would depend on how long you've been together. I'm ASSUMING a very very long time if you go so far as to call the boy your "stepson" as otherwise that would not be appropriate. So since you've been together so long and love the boy as your son I would have to say why would you not go with them? The fact that you are questioning going is reason enough to me to not go - at least not for now. Maybe let them go and get settled. Then see how things pan out once his real mother gets out of prison.
2006-11-13 07:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't want to move that would make a great excuse, but if your really committed to this family and love them you will not let her get in the way of that besides your stepson needs to see that all women aren't going to disappear on him when things get rough.
2006-11-13 07:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by bondomite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you can't decide maybe you should let them move and just wait on you making the decision for yourself. Where is it written you have to decide now? Give it some time til you know for sure what you want to do.
2006-11-13 07:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let love an ur heart tell u wat 2 do
2006-11-13 07:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by due 21/12/09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋