im a teen in high school so it would be different than how an adult would do.
2006-11-13 06:48:13 · 19 answers · asked by tini_the_queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just start sending him hints.if you are friends just talk to him more in more of an interesting way....show him you are interested as more then friends but do not be forceful at all
2006-11-13 06:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you what if, if you dont you will probably be lonely cause most guys are scared too. I guess you could have a friend scope him out, send him an anonymous email, a note, or if you really think you are out of his league or social circle pick someone else, cause you know what as you get older you will learn first off that rejection in highschool doesnt really mean anything, and also you will come to find that there really isnt much difference in boys, they are all basically the same.
2006-11-13 14:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really it's not different from an adult. I'm in my 30's and scared to death that this guy (i just started seeing) will reject me so i just don't say anything about it to him, but then again I'm also scared he will think I'm not interested and leave me anyway. So really it's damn if you do and damn if you don't. Good Luck
2006-11-13 14:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can live in dream world like I did and never say anything . While this is safe it doesn't prepare you to handle rejection or speaking yout truth later in life when It can get even more difficult
You'll never know until you try
2006-11-13 14:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by elflocks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's why God made Algore invent email.
Ask him for his email because you would like to email him something. If he says no, he is probably not interested, but at least he didn't reject you.
I would be much more likely to give a girl my email than my phone # or tell her if I like her. Once you have the email it is much easier to break down the walls of shyness.
2006-11-13 14:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Buck Turgidson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever the choice is "do what makes you afraid" or "Not doing something that might turn out great" choose to do what you're afraid of.
Most of the regrets I have are about chances I never took in high school.
2006-11-13 14:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Brian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a chance you have to take. Rejection is a part of life. I know how bad it can hurt but it is really a part of life. I have been rejected for dates, jobs, etc...and I just have to learn how to not take it personally and move on.
2006-11-13 14:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First learn as much as you can on him: his lifestyle, what sports, movies, music he likes, what's his mother like, etc.
Then just make him noticing you and approach you (as opposed to you approaching him, not a good technique) by simply acting the way you assumes he wants his women to behave. After contact has been favorably established (complete with physical contact, conversation and shared food/beverage), slowly reverse to your true-self in order to stay honest to yourself without scaring him too much.
Takes practice but works everytime.
2006-11-13 14:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by cobalt.sixty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rejection is a scary thing...but false hope and holding on to something that is not really there is far more scary!!!just get it over with and tell him..never know he may feel the same and you guys will be together...or if he doesnt you can move on to the next hottie and no time will be wasted!!!!
2006-11-13 14:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by noseyroseysillywillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey rejection is just a part of life. you will never know how he feels though if you do not tell him you like it GO FOR IT GIRL
2006-11-13 14:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy you care to know him better and would like to be his friend. Let him tell you that he likes you. Then you can look forward to having a nice friendship.
2006-11-13 15:54:01 · answer #11 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋