Me and my best friend (a guy) of five years were intimate this weekend for the first time and now I can not get him out of my mind. I told him how I felt and he said he felt the same way but it was not a good time in his life. Him and his x recently broke up because he walked in on her with another guy, he is joining the NAVY and going away to boot camp. He also lives 423 miles away from me. But after all of that I can not stop thinking about him. I would wait for him but am I going to suffer because of what she did? I would never be unfaithful to him. He says we should continue being friends until he finds out where he is going to be stationed but it is so HARD!!! I want to be with him... What should I do?? Why are guys so difficult!! He told me when he lived here he was madly in love with me but I just never saw it. Now I wish I could go back!!! PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-11-13 06:46:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't go back so go forward and find a way to make your dream come true, do not dwell on the negative find the positive and go from there
2006-11-13 06:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him letters while he is away. He will always think of you because of them. See where it goes from there.
2006-11-13 06:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pressure him. Ask him to write to you.
2006-11-13 06:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋