i love my girlfriend, but if im walking down the hall at school and i see clevage or a short skirt i cant help but to look
2006-11-13 06:44:42 · 39 answers · asked by M!k3 B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is normal, so long as you dont act on your those impulses. if you didnt look i would think something was wrong with you.
2006-11-13 06:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think..
you can look at other girls if you want there is no law that states you can not look at people but, if you are looking at them and getting turned on or wanting to meet that person there is a little problem. I think that you should really think about it and decide if you really do love your girlfriend. I see there to be no reason to even look at people of the opposite sex if you are achually in love. so take that and think about it.
2006-11-13 06:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal.
This comes purely from instinct, ingrained into your genetic code.
The fact that you can keep to your girlfriend alone is what makes you better than any other animal out there.
Advice: Sit facing the wall so you don't have the chance to stare.
2006-11-13 06:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a animal human impulse.. fortunately, you don't have to be a slave to your impulses.. With effort, concentration, and motivation, try to understand the meaning of desire and its effects on you.. we constantly want more, when we have it, we tire of it, and want even more, such is greed/desire/indulgence.. I think its fine to look at other girls, just know why you do it, and analyze it and your reactions and perception when you look at another girl.. and let your girlfriend know too.. Tell her life is too good, if you ignore it, thats just censorship! haha.. Cheers
2006-11-13 06:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because your a teenager, that's what you do. As you get older a more mature it won't be as noticeable but it's a reaction of human nature and will never totally go away. Don't worry about it.
2006-11-13 06:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by klynna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner you learn to appreciate the partner your with,the better you will be able to communicate with others.Never take your partner for granted,respect there feelings and life will be a lot less complicated.
2006-11-13 06:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by MyKey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a natural reaction. the typical saying "its like a car crash you don't want to look but you can't take your eyes away" just start thinking about things that your gf does for you or parts of her you are very physically attracted to and focus on those...it'll help take your eyes away from the other girls and put them on your gf
2006-11-13 06:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of us look, even women! But you can do it tactfully, without being offensive to your woman. It IS extremely disrespectful and shameful when you do it openly.
(If a man with a woman stares at me, I feel disgusted. I'm annoyed at how he ogles while his girlfriend/wife is RIGHT there!!! How classless!!!) At least be discreet, and ONE look is good enough!!
2006-11-13 06:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Join the club man we're all like that, but shhhhh dont tell my GF
2006-11-13 06:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, there's nothing wrong in looking what's on the menu, as long as you eat at home.
2006-11-13 06:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know dude I feel your pain. It's hypnotic. It's just a natural reaction as long as you stay faithful to your girl it's okay.
2006-11-13 06:46:53 · answer #11 · answered by Crisscross 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋