I know there are some out there! At least I hope so...! Any ideas?!
2006-11-13 06:38:06 · 27 answers · asked by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not attracted to beer spilling louts! I want someone who is going to treat me well! Girls do want the nice guys, nice guys don't always finish last!
2006-11-13 06:42:37 · update #1
By the way, I am 19 if that makes any difference to your answers
2006-11-13 06:44:02 · update #2
By the way, I am 19 if that makes any difference to your answers
2006-11-13 06:44:03 · update #3
People tend to attract their own kind. Do you smile, and act friendly and caring, or just cold and indifferent? Think about it.
2006-11-13 06:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that a lesson I finally learned was to not restrict myself to just guys I found physically attractive but to be friends with all types. Being a friend without the dating game attached can lead to some surprising endings. My husband is not the type I always dated- he is an inch taller than me and is not "handsome" in the classic sense. He is cute and sexy and handy and treats me like a queen. I am crazy about him. I simply went out for coffee once and I was hooked. In short don't restrict your field- sometimes the guy living next door can really turn out to be prince charming even if he doesn't appear that way at first...LOL
2006-11-13 06:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by june.johnston 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean besides emailing me?
Well to start out with, make a list of what you are looking for in a man, what are you willing to accept and not accept.
You may attract someone that is sweet, kind, and caring, but he may not make a commitment. So you have to be very specific on what you want. After you make your list, let me know and I will show you how to have fun, not mean or cruel, just fun looking for what you want.
2006-11-13 06:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some Don'ts - Don't sleep with them until they say they love you (or should I say show you they love you.. any B can say it..) Don't use sex to get them at all.. dress conservatively, don't use innuendo.. be smart, independent, friendly, witty and down to earth and you can't go wrong..
The losers who wanna use you as a notch for their bed post will be long gone - they won't last the distance but the few who do will wait, put you under no pressure and be the kind/sweet/caring kinda guy you can invest your future with.
2006-11-13 06:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to change the way you look at guys. Chances are you meet a guy,and dismiss all the negative things ,and just look at his outword appearence. Believe me I know I did the same thing with women when I was younger,and didn't get married until I was 32 because I spent up until my late 20's dating gorgeous women who were fake,because I ignored those early warning signs when I first met them.
2006-11-13 06:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Carl The green's keeper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are here, we just get frustrated because you all go for a**holes, and tend to overlook us because we don't treat you like crap. Seriously, you say you want a sweet guy, but you will go for the first guy who purposely splashes beer on you. If you can figure out why girl do that, please let me know. Do i need to just be mean to get a girl? Perhaps i should try that.
2006-11-13 06:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that there is, and i sure hope that you find one, because i really thing that they are few and far between, but hiding in the shadows somewhere, there must be one for you, i am to looking for someone, a lot older than you are....i to are beginning to wonder where they are, haven't had much luck with men i always seem to pick the other kind..........and will you know the rest of the story, i want bore you. so good luck and god bless and hope you find the man of your dreams..........
2006-11-13 06:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Church and dress appropriately. I know looks are not everything and your clothes should not matter, but unfortunately it does. If you dress like a rocker, then you'll attract that kind of guy, if you dress prep, then you may get a jock, i am terrible sorry if i sound like i may be stereo typing i hate that, but like i said it's true. If you want a sweet caring guy, YOU have to find him.
2006-11-13 06:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by Hotonic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most women don't want sweet caring guys. They often consider them wimps.
Then they get into trouble with the 'bad boys"
this is why women like britney spears is divorced. Bad boys don't make good marriage material.
You are not going to attract the sweet caring guys, you have to go out and find them.
2006-11-13 06:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I is funny. I think the same about girls. I want to find a nice one but in my whole life I have found one or two (already taken).
I am not so stupid to think that there is no one nice, but you begin to think it when you do not find anyone
2006-11-13 22:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋