ok...about a month b4 i met my current boyfriend i had met this other guy...we talked about twice and i lost contact with him.so then i hooked up with my boyfriend now.even tho i was with my bf i had to look for this other guy.i would look for him every weekend at all the spots he said he would go to.but i never saw him.well last friday my friend called me that this guy that i had been looking for was downtown...so she picked me up and i met up with him and we went crusin around..well on saturday me and him did the same thing then we all went out to eat with some friends...the whole time i was with this guy i was HAPPY! he had me laughing and smiling like i hadent done in a long time.my current boyfriend does not make me happy at all.im scared of him and i feel like hes just using me for my money.what is weird is that for some reason i did not want to give up looking for this other guy...it took me a whole month to find him and i feel right with him. and i dont wanna lookse him again..
2006-11-13 06:32:50 · 4 answers · asked by ~Mellie~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're only dating, right? If your current guy isn't making you happy (and isn't good for you) then let him go, regardless of whether or not you have a chance with this other dude. You are basically using your current bf as second best, which is very seedy practice!!
Things will come in time (if this guy is for you). Also, keep in mind that if this new guy keeps disappearing on you, he's not totally into you (I'm not saying this is the case, but keep an eye out for it). Guys who like women will be around them, they'll find ways.
2006-11-13 06:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you are a teenager. tell the currant bf that you are not ready to settle down with one person. Time is to short to not meet lots of people and hang out with people you want to with out feeling guilty about him. Tell him if you and he can just be kids and when past the 21 yr. age you can start thinking about a real realationship. Also, if sex is involved, be sure to use condoms.
2006-11-13 06:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by TillieDillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't married, dump the boyfriend & go with the guy who makes you happy, not scared. Good luck, honey.
2006-11-13 06:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should be with the person who makes you happy. life is too short to be with someone that treats you so badly...why would you wanna waste your time with someone like that. it sounds like a no-brainer to me!
2006-11-13 06:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by santacruzhippie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋