ok its been 5 months and my man sed that long distance is making him less interested in me. i luv him w/ all my heart and he wants to end it all.
what should i do?
2006-11-13 06:31:09 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move or find someone new, but dont tell him
2006-11-13 06:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Accept how he feels...long distance relationships are VERY difficult and more often than not, don't work out...people simply don't much care (usually) to be separated from their partner for weeks or months at a time...
Sorry this is ending for you, but perhaps you can find someone local the next time and spare yourself the challenges and issues that can come with an ldr...
2006-11-13 06:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and see if the distance is the only thing.... if you really do love him and he loves you then maybe you too need to make some changes and live closer together. If thats not an option make peace with each other and move on... he can always stay a good friend to you.
2006-11-13 06:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance is very hard for ppl. I was with my bf 3 mos long distance, before even meeting him and we knew that is was stressful and frustrating. There was a whole lot of times where I told him that I was going to let him go becuz i think he deserves better than a long distance relationship. I definitely loved him enough to do this, but he stuck with me. If he loves you, he will wait. If he thinks you are worth waiting for, he will wait.
If not, then you need to find someone who thinks you are worth these things and is willing to wait or just find someone who is 3-D
2006-11-13 06:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man wants to go, nothing you do will make him stay. Now if the problem is distance, can either of you move to accommodate the relationship? If he's not willing to move or accept you if you move to where he is, then you'll have to let him go. I'm sorry, I know that hurts. But if he wants out, out is what he'll be.
Good luck.
2006-11-13 06:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes even tho it hurts - you have to respect another persons feelings ......
truthfully look at the situation - if distance keeps you apart more than you are together
if distance - has confirmed a change in feelings
if distance - has caused you both to realize how other things were put on the backburner for this relationship
if distance - has found one/both of you attracted to another
if distance - has confirmed that you have different interest or desires or even curiosity of such
then ----
it is time to let go ......
if is meant to be - time will show that to BOTH of you
best wishes!
2006-11-13 06:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is nothing you can really do but, let him go.You should sit down with him and have him tell you why he wants to end it when he lets you know why then you just let him go cause if it was meant to be he will come back. If he loves you the way you love him then it will work out just give him some space let him go and trust if it was meant for yall to be together yall will. It takes time for males to see what they had that was really special and he will see that when you give him some space and he will be back.
2006-11-13 06:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes "there are many more fish in the sea" You'll find the right one! Don't worry! Be young and enjoy life. It may seem hard to imagine when your heart is broken, but you'll look back and be happy that everything happens for a reason...
2006-11-13 06:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't hold on to someone that doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. For that reason, my advice is to do whatever is necessary to hold on to your own dignity and wish him well. Don't look back, don't let him change his mind later, and take the necessary steps to ensure you heal from the hurt. There will always be another guy--there always is. Good Luck
2006-11-13 06:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been with a man for 5 months and love him already. Ok
Let him go. There is nothing for you to do really.
2006-11-13 06:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First is he too far? if he is give him the space cause you can find someone that loves you amd is willing to stay with you even if he is in space:) is he is not too far for you to reach him, i think you should surprize him with a visit and show him that you are willing to hold on to him stronger if he is for you. When he sees that you care that much he just might hold on just as strong. Maybe he thinks that you are not okay with him having to be far, let him know that you are okay, just as long that you feel that you belong together.
2006-11-13 06:38:45 · answer #11 · answered by mrsmoozab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋