i am a light high yellow women. I was told by a male friend of mine that dark black men have fantasies about high yellow women like me. Is this true. If so, could you explain it to me. Is this type of fantasy a sick deviant persve one. Is it normal or abnoral in terms of psychology? I do not believe that I am pretty. I think i am old. but i notice that alot of guy try to come on to me even my landlady's husband. I am 54 and I just had a bout of breast cancer. I lived with a black family who I thought was normal but now I realize the husband is a sick sex deviant who is trying to come on to me. I am actually scared of him. He is a dark complexion black men, and my male friend told me that he may try to rape me. DO I have something to fear. Please help me immediatly, Should I move out of the house.
2006-11-13 06:29:06 · 7 answers · asked by gigi120pelham 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some black guys probably do, and some don't...one male friend of yours cannot speak for all dark black men...
Why would it be deviant though? What's wrong with any men, black or otherwise, fantasizing about light complexioned black women?
There's nothing sick, deviant, or perverse at all in simply fantasizing about someone of a particular skin color...the actions one may desire to take with that person, may indeed be sick or perverse, but that's another topic.
2006-11-13 06:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg! just because he has a thing for u doesn't mean he's going to rape u. and race is no thing these days. everyone dates everyone. i mean come on. do u really think he likes u just because ur white? no. if ur 54 and he likes u then u must be attractive. just take the complement. and move on. black familys are thick. so don't go making assumptions like rape! just let him know that u r not interested and if that doesn't work. then let someone else know. and if he's making you that uncomfortable. then move.
2006-11-13 06:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by l3abygurl42004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have an overactive imagination, men will come on to whom ever is sitting up and taking nourishment. If your landlord is trying a good no in front of his wife will be sufficient to get him away
2006-11-13 06:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RULE OF NATTURE/ GREED OF HUMAN:
you always strive to have things you never had in life
2006-11-13 06:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on him talk to him about it around alot of people so if any thing goes down he is done
2006-11-13 06:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is a high yellow woman!??
2006-11-13 06:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friends do you have???
2006-11-13 06:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋