Should I stay or should I go?

Question

The situation is like this;

I live with my boyfriend, I love my boyfriend. Times are getting rough (as in we are arguing alot lately) he informed me last night we should not do every little thing together like we have been because he is afraid he and I will both be smothered. He thinks out relationship is heading into this direction because when am annoyed or mad with him I tell him "I hate him"! I don't hate him, I love him, but at that very moment that is how I feel.
I sometimes think about leaving him, but I do care for him ALOT. I despise confrantation and lately we have been displeased with one another. I am torn.
On the hand I know he loves me as well, but he doesn't seem as excited about being with me as when we first met only about 6 months ago....what happened? Is he bored with me and trying to use this as an excuse hoping I will move out? And if so, why doesn't he just act like a man and tell me he doesn't want to be with me anymore. Should I stay or go?

I have gotten a few responses suggesting that we talk it out.....that is where this came from. He sat down told me he had been seriously thinking about me telling him I hate him, and that it bothered him alot. So his suggestion was that we had been spending too much time together, and we should probably do our own thing for a little bit. He assured me he did not want to break up....he wants us to "make it" and that maybe this will help.

Answer 1

by him keeping you around probably means hes still getting sex....if he lets you go it would be harder for him to find a girl to give it to him..honestly he's probably keeping you around cause your the only one giving it to him......cut him off and see how long you 2 are together.....

Answer 2

Honestly.....I think that you might have moved to fast. You already live together and it has only been 6 months. You didn't take very much time to get to know each other first, and now he might be bored. I don't want to scare you, but things don't look so good, if this is how he acts after only 6 months.
Relationships take work....they are not easy....but both people have to be willing.
Communication is the key, sit down and have a talk about it and be honest.
Good luck!!

Answer 3

You should go. After only 6 months, it's obvious you're just not compatible. The infatuation has worn off and now there's very little to keep you together. Arguing and thinking about leaving mean you got involved too quickly with someone you don't have much in common with. It's not love, it was infatuation but that's long gone.

Answer 4

I have been in your shoes so many times! It's not that your man is sick of you. Trust me! You need to spend more time apart. Men really do like it when you play hard to get. When my boyfriend and I spend everyday together we get into it over the stupidest things. Go spend time with your girlfriends. I am sure he does. It's hard to find true love and if you know he is the one the you need to learn to compromise and work together to make things better.

Answer 5

i think yall should talk it out. give him some time to think it out. if he keep acting like that the seperate for lil while.

Answer 6

go leave now before he comes back home and take everything and dont you ever quit

Answer 7

LEAVE HIM