when my girlfriend and i are making out she, likes to be on top of me. And i like her on top of me. But she tends to push my head down sorta and she makes it a little awkward to kiss her when she kisses me like that. Shes like kissing me really really deep and puts alot of pressure on my face. Theres nothin that wrong with it. But it just makes me un comfortable
2006-11-13 06:20:39 · 22 answers · asked by B man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you gently try taking hold of the situation when she does this. You don't have to say anything to her directly because that will probably hurt her feelings, but you can just do what's going to make you feel comfortable. She's only doing it this way because you have never made it out to be a problem. In her mind she feels like everything is ok with her kissing you this way because you haven't said anything about it. When she's kissing you or pushing your head down the next time, just try and change the position.
2006-11-13 06:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key - tell her in a gentle way that, although it turns you on that's she so passionate about you, it's a little painful when she pushes your head back. Then ask her if there's anything you do that she doesn't like - that way you are being receptive to her needs & also not just blaming her - you are acknowledging that you both have a role to play in this situation. Trust me, she won't be offended (at least I wouldn't), as long as you say it nicely. Also, tell her what you do like - like, "It turns me on so much when you..." "I really love it when you..." that way, you are telling her all the great things she does that you enjoy, your are complimenting her, and it's a bonus for you because then she'll know what really turns you on, and she'll do those things more often. Don't worry, it'll be okay, just talk to her.
2006-11-13 06:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant say why she does it, maybe shes just into the moment and feels this is getting you hot as well. Back her off a bit but pushing her shoulders back gently. When she asks if something is wrong (and she will!), tell her that the position is a little uncomfortable for you. She shouldnt get upset at that.
2006-11-13 06:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it hurts. You don't want to be hurt for the rest of the time you're dating so just tell her. Say, "baby when you push my head down it's harder to kiss you". She'll stop. And if she doesn't, you get on top of her and be the bigger person. If you don't tell her, she's never going to know. I like being on top too, so you've got to be careful with the person you're on top of.
2006-11-13 06:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not feel good to not be in control when you are on your back does it?, now you know how uncomfortable it is for the ladies you could do something about it like telling her without hurting her feelings.
2006-11-13 06:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so try telling her that you really like kissing her she just uses allot of pressure so if she could relax just a little bit it would make it easier to kiss her for longer....
2006-11-13 06:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to dominate you. Let her so long as you also show her the same treatment, plus a little extra.
2006-11-13 07:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to be in control, roll her over and you sit on top of her and well you no start off kissing and =)
2006-11-13 06:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's an aggressor. If and when things progress watch out buddy. lol
2006-11-13 06:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell her, not us...put your face where you want it, an dif she tries to push your head down, tell her that is uncomfortable...it's okay to do that...if you don't tell her, she can't know...
Communicate, communicate, communicate.
2006-11-13 06:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋