ive had weird feelings for this guy since ive known him...everytime i see him i feel like im going to fall trhough the floor and the feelings in my stomach are unbelievable. its not cauz hes great looking. hes had feelings for me before too. anyways ive had to realize that i had to get over him last year becausehe just doesnt feel the same way these days and everytime i hang out with other guys(its been two years that ive been trying to get over him) my feelings and wants always lead back to him. Its like no matter how busy or what things are going on in my life its like hes suppose to be there. anyone wanna tell me whats going on here?
2006-11-13 06:20:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're obsessed, not healthy. get over it.
2006-11-13 06:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tom B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may be torturing yourself. The guy doesn't return your feelings and is making no effort to connect with you. It take two people who have mutual feelings for each other to make a relationship. This guy hasn't indicated that is the case. I think you are having a hard time accepting this fact. Once you get past your feelings for this particular guy, you'll be more likely to find someone that cares about you too. Good Luck
2006-11-13 14:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unrequited love is very hard to handle. Most of us have had to do so though at one time or another in our life. Sooner or later you are going to be the one that cannot return somebodies love. Something in experiencing it from the other side of the fence helps you to deal with your own feelings towards someone you thought you could not get over who didn't love you in return. It does fade. Especially when you finally have found the love of your life - and that does NOT happen until you have found someone that you love and loves you in return. Good luck to you
2006-11-13 14:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going on? Which part isn't obvious? So you have an infatuation, it's unrequited, and you're suffering through it. What's the mystery? You understand this happens 4-7 million times per day all over the world?
2006-11-13 14:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love
2006-11-13 14:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by sunil m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need closure and the only way you can get it is by talking to him and telling him how you've been feeling and wherever it goes after that will be up to the both of you but you will feel better about the whole thing and you will finally be able to get him off of your mind and live happy.
2006-11-13 14:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by klynna 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are obsessed stop putting him on a pedestal you think he is perfect but no one is. You'll find someone else that makes you feel that way as soon as you deside to let this one go. Good luck
2006-11-13 14:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely Lady 27 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it sounds that you are really connected to this person. I say keep doing what your doing. You heart is telling you something that maybe you should listen to. Maybe you both should work on a friendship if thats possible. If there is no willingness from his side, don't give up, when you are least expectecting it someone somewhere will come to you.
2006-11-13 14:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well...i think you have a condition that i call chronic crush...you have a crush on him for years and it's like a chronic disease ,i suggest you approach him in an indirect way ( like faking a coincidence or something ) and let him be the one to start ,,,don't throw yourself over him coz he might pull himself away........you have a gift that god gave you ( being a female) be clever,use your charms and keep your dignity.......good luck
2006-11-13 14:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by mays 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is major attraction. Maybe telling him how truly feel might help.
2006-11-13 14:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by brambram87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've either fallen or are falling for this person. If you are both single and free to date, ask him out. The worst he can say is no.
2006-11-13 14:24:32 · answer #11 · answered by MRG 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋