How would handle a situation of that matter? Do you think you would have a choice to choose over your mate or your children especially if you were married? Does it make a difference if your girlfriend/boyfriend or husband/wife? if either parties didn't like ones children?
2006-11-13 06:16:04 · 15 answers · asked by emotional misstres 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The question was asked do to a movie I saw. " Woman, Thou Art Loosed" If most of you haven't seen the movie... it was about a woman who dated a no good @$$...that ended up cheating on her doing drugs no job and molested her only daugther...but she continue to stay despite of ill manner behavior he represent to her...
We have alot of issue were child abuse is concern...and the women are most to blame b/c they choose to stay in hopeless relationship with men who treat them wrong and their kids...
2006-11-13 06:51:19 · update #1
you should see the movie bastard out of carolina
if my husband didnt like my kds i wouldnt be with him if he hurt them even once i would put him in the hospital then leave him if someone ever molested one of my kids id be in prison for murdering that person noone comes before my children and noone will ever hurt them as long as im around
2006-11-13 06:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by tabethamarie2002 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a plain and simple answer for that. If you are biologically related to that child, they come before EVERYONE else. No exceptions. If your bf/gf, spouse, whatever, cant accept the whole package, they need not be with you.
To choose someone over flesh and blood, is not only unacceptable, it is wrong.
If you dont like your children, i wuold say then you should have thought about that before having them. It is not fair to bring children into the world who will be unloved and unwanted.
I would always choose my children, bottom line because I can always replace a significant other- i cannot replace my kids.
2006-11-13 06:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that once you are married biblical the husband comes b4 the children, ask him why he doesn't like your children, counseling could be an option, maybe you are just nervous about the wedding, how old are the children, are there fathers an active part in there lives, it's possible your fiance` is jealous of the relationship with your ex!!!!
2006-11-13 06:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by goldenkitty187inc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend didn't like my kids, then I would find another boyfriend.
I assume my husband would like my children well enough, or he would not have married me and taken on the role of a parent to children he doesn't like.
2006-11-13 06:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never dated anyone who had kids - I refused to because it's way too much baggage. I also don't like kids and feel that people who have them and are single should worry more about their children then about making sure they have a date. Put your kids first - it's not all about you!
2006-11-13 06:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May I ask why you have asked this question 4 different times? If he does not like the children he is not worth seeing again.
2006-11-14 16:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jules 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I use to date men with kids and I realized that I hated the fact that I was the second fiddle, and I knew that he would never love me as much as he loved his kids. So, I broke up with him and now I am married to a man with no children and we are trying to have our own.
I know I sound selfish...sorry.
2006-11-13 07:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I tell you what if my man boyfriend or husband didn't like my children i would dump his ***,,my kids are my world and if a man can't love them then screw him...if they are with you and knowing that you have children and then don't like them i wouldnt' put my kids in that situation..if you don't love my kids screw off and get away form me and my kids
2006-11-13 06:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't he/she like them? If they are not being disciplined, then I too would probably have a problem with that. But if it's a personality thing or a jealousy thing, then you ditch the BF/GF and move on to someone who adores your kids as much as you do.
2006-11-13 06:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bad come upon and one ought to terminate the relationship if unmarried combating futher problems. Now in case you're married i could recommend your considerable different seek for counseling. it could make a huge distinction in one existence with somebody no longer liking the babies.
2016-12-14 06:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by erke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋