My boyfriend gets upset when I don't spend the night at his house. What should I do? ? ? How do I get him to stop. When I don't spend the night at his house he gets mad.
2006-11-13 06:12:08 · 15 answers · asked by LIZ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, in my opinion you should explain to him that it is practically
not easy to spend every single night at his house because everyone from time to time needs his own space and are just not in the mood of spending time with anyone else except for themselves. If you live with your parents, tell your boyfriend that your parents don't have problem with you spending the night at his house some of the times but are irritated when you do that every night!If he continuous complaining, just tell him that he is crazy and brake him up;he probably is!i hope i have helped you
2006-11-13 06:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by elen_yoko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, let him get mad. It's a power play, a control issue, and immature on top of that! You have the right to sleep where you want to sleep. If he keeps mistreating you, kick him to the curb! And if he breaks it off with you because you won't spend the night, then he didn't care that much for you anyway.
2006-11-13 06:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he get mad? Does he not trust you? That is sortof what is sounds like. Tell him that you have things to do at home, or that sometimes it is nice to be apart, because then when you do stay at his house, it will be a lot more special. If he still gets mad, he sounds like he likes to control you and you should leave him.
2006-11-13 06:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by cruiser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seem that you have two options if you want him to get off your back about this:
1) Dump his azz..and find someone new.
2) Stay at his house and let him ***k you.
2006-11-13 06:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to realize that you need/have your own space. if he continues to get mad over something so menial, then maybe hes not the best choice for a man.
2006-11-13 06:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that this is every guys fantasy. That guys spend lots of money to pay women to leave after they've had sex!!
2006-11-13 06:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him what you want. In a relationship must be communication...you have to talk with him about your problem, and if he is not changing, tell him to get out of your life...you are not a doll to play with!!!
2006-11-13 06:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see a problem, unless you are living together, if that is the case then there is a big problem
2006-11-13 06:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the proper reaction if you gently refuse? If he loves you, how do you think should he react as a man who sincerely and genuinely loves you?
RESPECT is part of love.
2006-11-13 06:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by StrongFaith 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
can you say SEPERATION ANXIETY.... umm he needs to learn how to be on his own without you because you aren't married and everyone needs their own space sometimes....
Tell him to chill and let him know that if he wants to be with you he needs to make a compramise....good luck
2006-11-13 06:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by kaiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋