So this guy has lead my on as if he were interested in me and all of a sudden he stops IM, talking to me, calling me. I don't think he knows how I feel but I am afraid that it will creep him out because we never really had a relationship. He made me feel so special and I told him how much he was a great guy and now it seems he wants nothing to do with me. I want to get over him but at the same time I want to try and win his heart. What should I do?
2006-11-13 06:08:54 · 8 answers · asked by anonomous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just not that in to you, sorry...or he wouldn't have ceased contact...the "brush off" is a very common method of letting someone know they aren't interested (nowadays)...it's the cowards way of getting away from someone, versus being mature and telling them, so they aren't left hanging and wondering...
Work on getting over him...you can't win the heart of someone who isn't going to make their heart available to you...
2006-11-13 06:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want him to be interested in you, all you have to do is just tell him what a great guy he is, if he made you feel so special just return the favor and actually mean what you say to him, most guys also like that they tell a girl how special she is and they wouldnt mind if the favor is returned, who knows maybe a nice relationship can spark, however if you want to get over him just dont think of him erase everything you have like an email adresse a telephone getting over a guy that has only lead you on in your opinion should just be way to easy think of it as revenge sorta like i am over you and i wont think of you i wont answer your calls i dont want to be part of anything of you. I hope this Helps GOOD LUCK
2006-11-13 14:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in your position I would invite him over make him feel comfortable and ask him where does he plan on doing with his life. Does it involve family, having someone by your side or does he still want to play around the block. If that's the case give him the time he needs to live out life, but that does not mean you should not have a good time yourself. Go to a bar or club with some friends and go live your life.
2006-11-13 14:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Brian C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away. Kinda sounds like he's got other things keeping his attention and your not one of them. Don't waste your time or feelings for this one. If he had true feelings for you he'd still be calling, cause he'd still be interested. And DONT TRY TO WIN HIS HEART. Cause guess what...it should be the other way around, men should want to win your heart. Give yourself that much credit.
2006-11-13 14:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Vanessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's already stoped talking to you and stuff like that, I would just send him an e mail telling him how you actually felt for him. Like I said if he stoped calling you and stuff then what do you have to loose by telling him how you feal.
2006-11-13 14:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you scared him off a bit already. HE probably just needs time. Back off a bit then give him a call... I would wait a while though.
2006-11-13 14:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the hint and move on. If your relationship was through IM, he probably was just looking for some cybersex!!
2006-11-13 14:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, if you figure that out tell me. email me that answer, you just asked my next question, in reverse.
2006-11-13 14:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by pimp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋