When you begin dating a new guy and your very attracted to them what is the longest amount of time you can keep from being physical sexually (not kissing) before they would lose intrest? What if you want to build anticipation?
2006-11-13 06:07:39 · 27 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should hold out until you feel it is right to have sex with him. If you have sex with him right away becasue you really like him and think he will be with you because you gave into him, there would be a good chance he will dump you because he thinks you sleep around. If you hold out to long and he leaves you, then he was using you and he isn't worth being with. You will know in your heart when it's the right time.
2006-11-13 06:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by shelbsyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you hold out until you feel comfortable. But, don't make a game out of it, and don't be a tease. Building the anticipation can be a good thing. If the guy loses interest quickly, then he wasn't worth it in the first place, and don't have sex with him just to keep him interested. There is more to a relationship then sex.
2006-11-13 06:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by weeewah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can hold out forever as I'm not having sex with a guy.
Seriously, I wait at least two dates before trying to kiss. I want to know the woman doesn't have any STD sores covered up by make up...
2006-11-13 06:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. What's your favorite: long hugs, holding hands or kissing? Long Hugs. 2. Do you call your girlfriend beautiful or pretty? Or do you call your boyfriend hot or cute? I don't have one...But if I did I'd call him hot AND cute. 3. Do you think the smell of colon turns girls on? Or does it turn you on (girls)? Yes, it does. 4. If you want to hook up with a girl/guy for 1 night does that mean make out to you? Yeah...I don't do one night stands. 5. And last, do you imagine having sex with the girl/boy you like sometimes? Honestly...DUHH!!!
2016-03-19 07:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it all depends on the guy and the relation ship. i usually wait about a month. but if you feel close enough to the guy u dont have to wait that long. my man now we knew eachother about a month but we were only friend the first time we had sex we didnt start dating until after we had sex a few times. now we are engaged. everything is individual.
2006-11-13 06:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold out as long as you want. Its your body and your choice to give it out. If the guy really wants you he will hold out too. Remember : If you put out he may put you out ... men want women not hoes.
And also, its a proven fact that the women who play hard to get are always the freakiest under the sheets, so keep it up the anticipation will make everything twice as better.
2006-11-13 06:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gonna have to go with Der Mann on that, straight het, so forever!
Sex with a new lady?
well now,,,,, that's different!
More than a month, and I'm wondering what I did wrong,
2006-11-13 06:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one..... you dont want to get in bed right away cause then he might think your a slut!!! But i would say like a month cause if he really likes you he'll be willing to wait or if you really like him and have known him for a while its when ever YOU feel comfortable. When you finally have sex be careful girlie you dont want to get something from him!!!!
2006-11-13 06:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by heather p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a month gotta-course i lasted 2 dates last time-think it gets shorter and shorter as you get older, and as for building anticipation-i can't go longer than that without going totally crazy.
But good idea in theory
2006-11-13 06:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't put a time frame on when you decide to become sexually active with someone...
You should have sex with him when BOTH parties are OK with it
2006-11-13 06:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋