my boyfriend has been really depressed lately and doesnt want to talk about it with me... and i really dont know what to do.... any suggestions?
2006-11-13 06:06:46 · 12 answers · asked by trackstud610 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if someone doesnt want to talk about something with you and you are really concerned about whats the matter then you should let him know that u care and tell him"i luv u wit all my heart and if there iz ever anything on ur mind i'll always be here if u have a problem" and if that doesnt work if he ever gets better treat him the exact same way he treated u and let him kno i it felt.
2006-11-13 06:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by brebreizballin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly there is not a lot you can do but be there for him. When he is ready to talk to you he will.
However with that in mind, don't let him suck you down into his depression. You need to take care of yourself to, and if at any point you are not strong enough to help him, you should tell him so.
Hopefully it is short lived, but maybe make some suggestions like he go see a doctor or perhaps talk to another close friend when he is ready. I hope this helps, depression is not something that is easy for anyone involved, but I hope you take care not to get hurt.
2006-11-13 06:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you are there when he does want to talk. Guys really don't like talking about what they are going through when they are still going through it, but once he figures it out he will most likely open up to you on what the situation was
2006-11-13 06:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably trying to do the 'guy thing' and work his way out of it on his own. Make sure he knows that he can trust talking to you about his feelings. Also, tell him that you are there when and if he feels ready to talk about it. Pressuring him may make him feel worse.
2006-11-13 06:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push him around to talk about that he doesn't want to talk about. Some times men don't like to talk about something which may hurt their ego, or they feel bad about. Make him very comfortable with you, hug him, kiss him. Eventually he will feel that he can depend on you to share the matter. He will talk about you then. My husband always do that and I work out that way.
2006-11-13 06:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by star_unknown1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, perhaps in case you have asked him and he won't answer, consistent with possibility considering's something he's coping with on my own do you be attentive to of a private disaster he could desire to be having? (residing house, paintings, pals)?? i does not push, merely permit it is. adult males do not continually reveal thoughts and thoughts like us. whether you have been somewhat close, he could desire to easily be having a not undemanding time on the different hand, perhaps he's scuffling with eager to be out of a realtionship - probable not you - yet him and his subject concerns being apprehensive is organic; save chatting with pals and get help from others. do not push him too not undemanding, yet help him, whether the top effect isn't a relationship yet a friendship sturdy success!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2016-10-17 05:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it boil over. some people like privacy when something is wrong. but try to cheer him up a bit... Make him his favorite meal or something, and then let him have time alone. let him know you are there for support.
2006-11-13 06:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are insecure about their problems most likely if you need to know he'll tell you but dont force him just let him know you are there if he needs you and just stand off to the side till he wants to talk...
2006-11-13 06:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i could suggest is...let him know that even he doesnt share his problem with you thats okay....but anytime his ready to talk about it... your just there for him and show more support to him...
2006-11-13 06:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to his family, gather info. Then come to hiim when you figure it out.
2006-11-13 06:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by pimp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋