Why do girls stare?

Question

Aparently when I am with my girlfriend girls give me good looks and her evils. My girlfriend sees this and even my friends both guys and girls have commented.
I just wanted to know why arent they more respectful? and why are they so bitchy to my girl friend?

I dont want to sound big headed. I really dont want the attention and ihardly ever even notice! it can be very annoying when we go out.
The worst is the few occasions we go to a club. The other day this girl accidently on purpose dropped her cigerette on my girlfriends leg! she was a proper *****.
My girl friend really doesnt do anything to deserve it we are both really laid back friendly people.
Any adivce on how to deal with these people?

Its not her/our friends that do it. They have noticed that others do it.

" It's in both your minds...no one cares about you that much.
You're obviously trying to get people to say it's because they fancy you and are jealous that she's with such a stud!
If i'm wrong then why ask the question when the answer is so blatant. "

I am really not trying to do this at all. I am no stud! lol. I really have no interest in what other girls think of me. I have been with my g.f for 5 years and dont want anyone else.

Guys do look at my girl. BUT they dont stare and I have never gotten evils.
They may have a quick glance but thats it once they see shes taken they move on.
If she was alone it would be a different story. But as I said with guys its a quick glance and I have never got evils.

Thank for the replies!
90% we do just ignore it because it isnt important. We both know that we are only into each other there are no problems there.
But it doesnt stop it from being annoying sometimes! I guess thats just life!
Hopefully when we are married there would be alot less? (any married couples feel free to let me know it goes away!)
And again im not saying this because im full of myself or anything I have seen it happen to other friends too. Its just a general question.
Anyway it doesnt keep me awake a night or anything!
Thanks for your advice/replies anyway.

Answer 1

Up until a reasonable age women are programmed to compete for the attention of men (in the same way men are programmed to compete with each other.. in sportsm business etc)

For women, they compete often on how attractive they perceive themselves and others to be..hence in a pub if they feel they are better looking than others they will get a kick if they perceive the opposite they will feel down..

For whatever reason these girls (cannot be women because as I say most women grow out of this because it is disrespectful and most get to an age where it no longer matters/they no longer care) see your girlfriend as a threat and probably wish they were the one on your arm..

Stay loyal to your girl next time they do it - kiss her, tell her she's fab, hold her hand or do anything to show them you are 100% with her and not even vaguely interested in even getting an ego boost from their flirting..

Answer 2

It's in both your minds...no one cares about you that much.

You're obviously trying to get people to say it's because they fancy you and are jealous that she's with such a stud!

If i'm wrong then why ask the question when the answer is so blatant.

And can i just say to your additional comments your girlfriend must be doing something...girls don't act like that where i come from and if they are b1tchy enough to try then you stand up to them.
There's nothing more attractive to a bully than a victim so tell her to stop being one!


Ok well i feel bad for the 1st comment now...but still believe my second point.

Answer 3

OH wow! I am so pleased you asked this question because I have only just found out the answer to this! I am presuming that your girlfriend is very attractive otherwise the girls would only be dishing out them looks because of the whole "what is he doing with her thing!"

The reason for this is simple (and i only found out cos I asked a girl why she was looking at me funny when I was with my boyfriend in a bar. It is due to the female like to be found attractive and desired, and clearly when a man is with his lady friend it is not often they will eye up a girl or interact with eye contact, this makes the girl passing by or sitting by you in a pub feel insecure and question her own ability to make you look at her rather than your gf, hence the emotion comes out to the person who is stopping her having that communication with you. I was in the toilets with a girl for 45 minutes taking about this and what really should have been a cat fight turned out to be a damn good conversation.

I wouldnt worry too much about it, girls and bitches and the sooner you get used to it the better, xxx

Answer 4

Maybe they were already in a mood before they saw you guys. The look was already on their face, so you guys didn't put it on them? Either way, ignore & don't look at other girls. You can't control peoples' free-will of staring & making faces. Just keep an eye on each other & barely glance over others' faces. You guys will be happy & none-the-wiser! :)*

Answer 5

girls can stare for several of reasons but in your case these girls may want you. and they give her the ugly look to intimidate her, make her feel like shes nothing. they may want to run her off so that they may get you for themselves. are you staring at them first? if so they may stare at you because you are staring at them and when your girlfriend looks at the other girl she gives the other chick a nasty look because she thinks that the other girl want you when reality is you want the other chicks. so you may want to evaluate yourself and your relationship with your girlfriend, and also do stare back at them because eye contact tells things that you dont want people to know. so just take a glance that way she will get the point that you are not interested

Answer 6

Well some girls are insecure and find you attractive there for they give her a dirty look and you a good look so you would notice them. they see her as the competition. So next time a girl give her a dirty look or is bitchy to her hold her tighter and smile.

Answer 7

Girls like what they see sometimes or looking for fault to giggle and talk about. Your girl friend should find her better friends. Then you or your girlfriend should tell these girls to back off or report them to proper officials.

Answer 8

Tell me, do guys look at your girlfriend? Do guys give you evil looks or have you just not paid attention?
It is not only women, believe me.
Young girls behave this way, it is a power game (Woman to woman).
Maturer women do not behave this way, unless they are childish.

Answer 9

Maybe you're sexy and they hate your gf because she gets to be with you and they don't? Don't expect maturity from adults! If you see girls ogling over you and giving your girl looks that could kill, put your arm around her or lean over and plant a big kiss on her cheek. That'll show 'em.

Answer 10

It could be your girlfriend and you do not look good together, and the females that stare and give your g/f the evil eye are no ladies.