Well not to long ago,I say about three weeks ago my x-boyfriend started talking to me again & told me he broke up with his girlfriend who he has been dating for 2 years, just because he was scared of being a daddy!Now he is around son which is19 months & growup without his dad being there for him.But since than in the past he got me pregnant & lefted me for her after three months into my posted pregnancy and said our son wasn't his baby and said i selpt around but after all those months he's crawling back begging for an apollogy and is trying to make thing's right and wants to be in his son's life!But i am still mad cause i had to go through 9months of pain without him there and i was depressed cause i thought he was the love of my life but not,and i raised my son to the age he stands today and i'm in a faithful relationship which my x-boyfriend knows but who should i be with cause the guy i'm with is an angel, but my x is coming up stronger and has hope that will be together!!
2006-11-13 06:01:57 · 19 answers · asked by Tilly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess the grass was greener with you. I would say If you take him back make sure he knows that this is it. you will not take him back if the relationship ends again.
2006-11-13 06:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Wiseguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this even a question?
You are in a relationship with someone else who cares about you and your son. The ex boyfriend is an ex for a reason. To him, you are a safety net. He broke up with the last girlfriend and hopes you'll be there for him so he isn't alone.
Don't screw things up with the current guy. This shouldn't even be a thought in your head.
2006-11-13 06:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by txgirl_2_98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what that you ex-boyfriend is now trying to avoid his responsibilities to his new wife and child and wants to get back with you? I'm sure returning to you looks easier to him at this point than fulfilling his committments. He also doesn't care what negative impact his decisions may have on you. He seems totally self absorped and incapable of putting someone else first. You made a mistake, lived up to your responsibilities and have now found someone that cares for you. Why let the ex-bo change what you have built with someone else? As soon as it gets tough again...he'll move on. I wouldn't even take the time to explain things to him...just keep living your life and let him figure out on his own that you're no longer playing. Good Luck
2006-11-13 06:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight.....you are considering dumping ANGEL MAN to take a ex who broke your heart, called you a filthy hoe, said it wasn't his baby, took up with another girl and left you 3 months into your pregnacy? Hmmmmmm........Let me see.....DUH! I would give ex-boy the time of day. His character is a known lack of resources. ANGEL MAN, on the other hand, has been there for you. Ex coming up stronger? With what? EXCUSES? PUUUUUUUUUUUUUULLLLEEEEESSSEEE!!!!! Do yourself and your sweet baby a favor. Do not let this ex-boy ruin a good relationship to take his dumb butt back. Tell him so sorry, no way! Where's the money from ex-boy for your baby btw? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm? If you want to live in a trailer, with a bunch of babies he claims aren't his while he is out finding himself and then leaves you at age 40 all used up to go "live" then take ex-boy back. You will have a miserable life. Good luck!
2006-11-13 06:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you thinking, no way do you let him back into your life. and if you boyfriend is looking after you and your son, what is the need for the looser to be there, he wasn't interested in the child he help conceive, so what is the interest now. I would question his motive
2006-11-13 06:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness. Not to be rude, but what the h*ll do you think? What would you tell your friend if she were in your shoes? What would you tell your mom? You see him walk out on you, now a new girl, and you want him back? And why the hell don't he wear condoms? Talk about not learnin your lesson.
2006-11-13 06:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your current boyfriend,, dont go back to the ex,,,,,, if he wishes to be a father to his child, you can encourage that, as long as it stays positive for the child, but separate him being a father, from him having any type relationship with you,,,,,he wasnt there when you and the baby needed him, and while the baby still needs the father, proceed very cautiously,,,,, as he may/will try to use it as a chance to get with you
2006-11-13 06:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks to be your ex, stick with the guy you've got and ignore the deatbeat dad. But you should make him pay to help raise your kid, after all he is legally responsible even if he didn't want to be.
2006-11-13 06:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS, this right here is the reason some of you effin kids need to be sterilized. Do you have any idea how bad all this sounds? Not to mention the fact by your writing you look like maybe you have a 3rd grade education. SO sad.
2006-11-13 06:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
plz do some taughts abt this, think y u been ex, and suddenly he needed u back, are u willing to face the brokeup again, and can u forgive and forget, easily.. so think twice.
2006-11-13 06:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋