2006-11-13 05:58:58 · 24 answers · asked by Steve-O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not getting enough attention and or affection
2006-11-13 06:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When there is a lack of respect. Either she doesn't feel respected or she losses respect. I think the best way to stop this from happening is to listen to her when she has something important to talk with you about. When I say listen I mean hear her out then look deep within to see why she said this. You may not like everything you see but that's growth buddy.
Also she's got to respect you as a man. She may not ever really let you know about this let down if it's there. That means being 'together' having a plan for most situations and being in control of your life, direction, environment. If you think this may not be you then I suggest you start looking for answers. It may require another question.
Good luck and congrats on being man enough to ask the important questions to make things work.
2006-11-13 14:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been dumped once and done the dumping a few times. once it was after a few months because i was only 16 and the guy was a year older and wanted to move way to fast for me (he was thinking about marraige). he could have prevented i by slowing down. one other time i was with him for three years we were engaged. i left him because i decided he was not right for me i didnt love him and he hurt me. i feel in love with someone eles and i am newly engaged again. he is an amazing man and i cant really say how. all women want something different that is why everyone isnt right for everyone. there is no way to stop breaking up. if u break up ur no tment to be together.
2006-11-13 14:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many factors...
- Biggest thing is trust.. if there has been a break in trust that is the hardest thing to get through especially cheating
-the both of you start getting different interest and just start to get distant from each other
-one of you find someone else..sometimes people just mesh better with other people
-men not being interested in the girls interest.. we want to be with someone who will support us in what we do and someone we know we can lean on.. you know be that person we can talk to..
there are so many reasons why things don't work out between people.. best way to avoid a bad break-up...COMMUNICATION
2006-11-13 14:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by kaiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the reasons may be as different as the women are.
Personally, I think "immaturity", "anger issues", "lack of respect", "jealousy" and "control issues" are good reasons. If a guy is incapable of "communicating" or "trusting" you, there's little hope for any type of healthy relationship.
Men with a good "sense of humor", professionally "successful" and "confident" are very appealing to most women. Good looks don't hurt but I think "personality" is far more important.
And, by "professionally successful" I don't mean they have to be an attorney or doctor! As long as they are happy with whatever they are doing, and make a living doing it, that's the important thing.
Hope that helps a bit!
2006-11-13 14:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think women dump men more because men like different women after a while well not all men but most and they like different things and women dont want to be used they want serious relationships... i dont think there is anything to prevent it, just be yourself you'll find someone ... it's just the way god made life
2006-11-13 14:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. She realizes you and she are just not a good match
2. Jealousy/lack of trust (whether warranted or not)
3. Meets someone she's more attracted to
4. Financial reasons
5. Infidelity
The list could go on...probably many of the same reasons guys break up with chicks...the above are in no particular order...
2006-11-13 14:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dumped 3 bfs, all because I met someone else. Until we meet the right one, we will usually always be on the look out.
2006-11-13 14:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Heather M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i have heard that women do break it off more often than men do. i do believe it is because sometimes we expect for them to know what we want and som times its not like that. also many times they jus dont giv the time and affection they should be giving, us breaking it off with them makes us think " this is how i will prove it to him!" and then break up, but in all cases its not like that, i think it just take time to do things right but, i can say it wil be well worth it. sharing some of ur life with another person and h aving som one to love is all good but, i can also say dont be stupid u no? there is times when u do jus have to break it off!
2006-11-13 14:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Nina Chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating!
2006-11-13 14:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When trust has been broken, it is like a glass it can be repaired but the evidence of the break will always be there. and most people never get past this
2006-11-13 14:01:55 · answer #11 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋