my boyfriend is a real jerk 2 me but i love him so much that i cant let go!!! wat should i do !!!
2006-11-13 05:56:56 · 16 answers · asked by I...love...me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i want 2 leave him but i know it going to be hard but i guess it would have to come
2006-11-13 06:14:09 · update #1
Look at it like this,
How does he treat everyone else?
If he's treating everyone just as badly, then he's an emotional cripple who can't connect to others in a meaningful way, and you will spend the entire time you are together wishing you could change him.
Trust me on this, you can't change him. He has to change himself.
To do that, he has to want to change.
Does he want to change, or is he happy being an insufferable prig?
The only thing you can change is YOU.
Why would you love something that treats you badly?
That's like saying you "love" going to the dentist for a root canal, and you "love" the IRS for taking all your money.
Examine your feelings for this schlub, are you looking for acceptance? are you needing his love for satisfaction in who you are? is it love, or an addiction?
Cuz if he's treating you like this now, how will he treat you in a year? in 5 years? in 20?
I think you should leave him, be happy in yourself.
2006-11-13 06:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by George Curious 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to do what is best for you, i went out with a ****** for almost 4 yrs, and i finally got the balls to dump his ***, I admit it was hard but now I am really happy that I did, if you are planning on leaving him, just make sure you keep urslef busy by going out with friends and things like that to keep your head off the situation, Good luck
2006-11-13 06:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by lilli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are only jerks to girls who allow it. It's time for a reality check. You love him, you love the way he treats you. How very sad.
2006-11-13 06:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is a jerk to you know its not going to change ever. You need to make him aware of this behavior and how he needs to change it or some action will need to be taken by you.
2006-11-13 06:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually because whatever male role model they had growing up was a jerk so they think it's normal.
2006-11-13 06:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people only do the things they do because they can.
if he's being a jerk to you it's because you're letting him!
teach him that he needs to treat you with respect or have enough respect for yourself and just leave! are you really proud to say that you're in love with a jerk????
2006-11-13 06:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Gingersnap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes a jerk now he'll always be one. Find yourself a guy worthy of you. Life is too short to waste on !@#holes!!!!!
2006-11-13 05:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by nnklly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps it may lie deep in the roots or a disrespectfull upbringing of a bad childhood..... its not his fault , try to find the things he wants from this relationship and work on them , he must know the things you want from this relationship aswell (from the heart, put on the waterworks) he will slowly change with you for the better once you understand each other more better
2006-11-13 06:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by insenergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are jerks to their friends because they know you will always love them
2006-11-13 06:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by lucelia d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not something admirable is on the recommendations of someone who tease people. If we are speaking of a unmarried guy (without lady friend), he can do inspite of he needs if women people enable him to do, yet to have a lady friend and cheat friends mutually makes of him a terrible human being that no that is ordinary to trust. he will end on my own, without friends, and purely with ordinary & superficial women people. flow remote from that guy as he has no heart and no brains, he purely thinks consisting of his genitals. no that is ordinary to percentage any friendship with one of those adverse logician.
2016-11-29 02:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋