I've talked to her only 3 times so far and the last time we spoke was two weeks ago. Whenever I see her walking the halls alone I try to talk to her.
Anyways... the only thing I managed to grab was her name I didn't want to come on too strong. She hadn't used her myspace for about 3 months time, but she just got her comp back and started to use it. I'm thinking of adding her on MySpace and getting to know her this way.
We have no classes together this year so it's really hard on me. Plus there's a two year age gap. She's a sophomore I'm a senior.
Anyways she's a really shy person and I know it's easy to creep a shy person out. Like the first time we talked she was choking up big time. She doesn't know many guys at my High School. Last time we talked she was kinda uncomfortable. So I think getting to know her online will be a better alternative.
So is this a good idea or am I just going to creep her out by doin this?
2006-11-13 05:56:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can add her or start messaging her. Either/or.
A man started messaging me on myspace, and we actually didn't get on eachother's friend lists much later... but it was a good way for me to get to know him and likewise. Next week we are finally meeting at a restaurant (my idea, so I'm 99.9% sure he's no creepo.)
When I was in highschool, I was shy about the older guys talking to me, too. Add her. Just do it. She will probably be flattered and it's a good start in getting to know her, right?
Good luck!
2006-11-13 06:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's a good idea. You need to remember that when you are online, you don't have to be perfect and don't have to worry about inhibitions. Get to know her that way and see how it goes in person later. Myspace and internet friend connections are a good way to break the ice, in my opinion. Go for it and good luck!
2006-11-13 14:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Manna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a message on myspace before you add her, asking if it's okay..and add some chatty lines to it that would require a response, then go from there...
2006-11-13 13:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try 2 talk 2 her in da hallway
2006-11-13 13:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Boo21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋