How do I forget about a guy that I loved and had no reason to? How do I stop thinking about getting back together with him. I need to close the book on this.
2006-11-13 05:52:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing to do is to go out and have fun w/ ur friends. Look at the big picture and what's best for u in ur life. It's hard, I know, but u have to do things for urself to be truly happy and if he doesn't make u happy then its not a good relationship to be in. Go out and live ur life for u.. that's the best way to live. You can't always live ur life for other ppl. Once u realize this, then u will understand. You'll find someone else to make u happy - when u least expect it and even if ur not looking for it.
2006-11-13 05:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by ~B~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just don't forget. God wants him to be there for some reason. You REALLY don't ever forget your first love. Try to go on with your life and when you find yourself thinking of him, let it be. What can it hurt to think that when the warm summer breeze blows thru your hair that it's him thinking of you too..gettiing over a past love is like getting over death of a loved one, it doesn't happen, but time does ease the paon.
2006-11-13 14:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happend to me many many times
yes this is hard i know but i just went out and had loads of fun with my friends to forget
try to see other people
but being single is so much more fun
just have fun and forget about everything
make better memories with your friends
it takes a while to completly get over it
took me 6 months to get over my one year relationship but i did it and i am fine. i see him with his new gf and i am still single. it only bothers me a tiny bit but oonly for a second because u have to realize that the relationship u were in was bad anyway so why want to get back into it?
just forget about him there are better things in life u dont need a man to be happy
2006-11-13 13:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to forget, if you try to thoughts of him will resurface in another relationship. You will always have a place in your heart for him, but in time your love for him will fade. You just need to take time for this problem to go away. If there was no reason behind your love and you just fell for him eventually you will fall out of love with him. Dont forget, remember, but place it far away from you.
2006-11-13 13:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and meet someone new. There is someone out there for everyone. You just have to find the right guy because he will make you forget all the rest. Take care.
2006-11-13 13:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, like the first poster said, time will help you. I was engaged to someone for awhile back in 1997 and I still think about him and what he is doing. I don't pine over him anymore though and I have moved on with my life. You never really get over someone you have loved and he will always be with you, but you will find someone else, and they will help you make new memories. =)
2006-11-13 13:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by aloneinga 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy answer. Sorry. You will move on in your own way in your own time. Just know that if the love you had was real, you can always remember him as someone you shared something special with but it just didn't work out this time. Also remember that you WILL love someone again.
2006-11-13 13:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by curiousgeorge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals.....I know that sounds lame but it is true.
Stay busy; fill your time with things that allow you to give of yourself to others - the holidays is a great time to do this - share and spread cheer among young and old alike .... there are so many who are so lonely this time of year ....
never know, in the midst there just may be another "Mr Right"
best wishes!
2006-11-13 13:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lose all contacts and communication, then the absent of time will help you to forget and the relationship with another man also will help you resolve this problem. To help you speedily is to pray that help with almost anything.
2006-11-13 14:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out there. the only way to forget a old man is to get a new one.
go to the mall go to the club, a game, the park any where men are every where.
just look around. you will find one.
2006-11-13 14:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋