so there is this really really popular guy in school and every girl wants to get with him. and im not that popular but he has in interest in me. but it is just for sexual things and i am ok with that because i want him for the same reason too.
i had him over the other night and we did some things but didnt go all the way because he didnt have a condom.
and i know he told his friends about it and im ok with it because i am proud of it
and his friends that are girls came up to me and aaksed me about it and were really jelouse. it makes me feel good i guess.
is that a bad thing? and why me?
2006-11-13 05:52:20 · 22 answers · asked by Suzie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not the whole skool knows, only his friends. and i an not easy and i am not having sedx for popularity. i just want the girls to want to be me and the guys to want to be with me
2006-11-13 06:07:20 · update #1
Girl naw you have just earned yourself some popularity. the guy is gonna come back ofcourse and put it down on him. as for those jealouse H O E S that envy you let them be that way. and if they start rumors just utter these simple words (dont hate me get like me) DntH8tMeGetLikeMe. and while they are with their bf's just think to yourself (they man wish they was me.)
2006-11-13 05:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would say it's a bad thing because of the fact that you are proud of everyone knowing about it. There is nothing wrong with having a physical relationship with someone if you are both into it, but as far as the whole school knowing about it, and him telling all of his guys, I wonder if you should take a second and make sure that you DO really want this kind of attention and for what reasons. It always makes people feel good to be wanted, but you need to start respecting yourself or no one else will anymore and this will be the ONLY kind of attention you will get, all through high school at least.
2006-11-13 05:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by hollym101 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the problem is other people may condemn you.
If you can deal with that immaturity on their part then you sound like you're doing ok. (esp using a condom!!)
If you are doing it (sex) for your pleasure and not to gain his love or anything like that then you won't get hurt.
Older women 40's and up often will just bang their male friends but these women are experienced and are looking for the sex only. They don't feel cheap or slvtty because they are comfortable with what they are doing.
THen again i know some women that get off on being "naughty". THis too is ok as long as you aren't doing it for approval or to gain popularity. If you put your self esteem in someone elses hands (by having sex with them for instance) then you are giving up your power you'll get hurt.
tom
2006-11-13 06:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes because of your reason. You have made you self known as a person who only is interested in having sex, and you soon will have every guy coming to you for sex, but nothing else.Are you sure you want a reputation like this just to be popular, and you will be but for all the wrong reasons. When you do come to realize what a mistake this is it will be to late to go back and fix it as your reputation is already in question
2006-11-13 05:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if your comfortable with what happened then I would say no, but it looks like on his end that it's more of a game that he got with you and he want's to brag about. or maybe even a bet where you say your not that popular. Kids these days and when I was growing up can be so mean. It can be very complicated, just becareful and don't let feelings get involved with this guy cuz he seems to be a punk, in my opinion any way
2006-11-13 05:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you are asking the question, obviously you have doubts.
using people for sex is not a sign that they respect you.
it sounds like you are still in high school. most of the time in that age of guys, the chase is usually where they get the most thrill.
I suggest treating yourself with more respect. no one can respect you if you don't respect yourself.
let me put it this way. If you had a daughter, is this what you would want for her? would you be happy letting her let a guy use her like that and for her not to do anything better for herself?
2006-11-13 05:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I tell u this. The relationship u have with him will end up with u pregnent, hated, or laughed at. So know that if it's not going to turn into a love connection then drope it before karma hit u n the face. Be tru to urself ma.
2006-11-13 05:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by jayfrezzy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like now that the deed has been done you are not so sure you should have done it. To late to close the legs now honey. This would not be a problem if you were not still such a child. Time to grow up little girl and keep your mouth and your legs closed. What have you done to be proud of?????
2006-11-13 05:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by picture 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He's just using you. After all, a gentlemen never kisses and tells. Sounds like a jerk no matter how sexually attracted you are to him. Some some class, girlfriend!
2006-11-13 06:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your dream of being the class sl*t is coming true. Your Mom must be so proud!
2006-11-13 05:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by rilindy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋