Anybody ever sabatoged their OWN relationship? Like things are going well, but for some reason, you feel yourself trying to undo things? It might be happening to me (she seems to be doing it). I have heard of it, just wondering if anyone has, why? What is scary about a potentially great relationship?
2006-11-13 05:32:15 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i have done that.....i was afraid of being hurt so i would push everyone away as soon as i found out how much they cared about me....thank God my current husband wouldn't let me do it to him....cause i now have a wonderful life that i never thought was possible for me!!!!!!
2006-11-13 05:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people grew up in such dysfunctional homes (divorced parents, remarriages, second divorces, step-kids, visitations, drama) that a normal, stable relationship just feels weird. They're so used to tension and upset, it makes the good relationships feel wrong.
2006-11-13 13:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls believe that a good relationship means its their last. So they will start to find faults where none exist.
I've broken it off because of distance, but with the intention of getting back together.
2006-11-13 13:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by BoRNACiD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be doing it subconsciously because she is bored. Maybe you give her her way too much and too often.
I know I did this. I started fights for the entertainment of it. Wrong, I know now, and mean. But he simply wasnt any challenge to me.
2006-11-13 13:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh yeah after i graduated gigh school and moved i was with this girl and i told her look i'm leaving so bye
it could've been great between us
i guess i'll never know
damn you for making me second guess myself
I"M RIGHT
2006-11-13 13:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course!! When you aren't ready you aren't ready!
2006-11-13 13:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i have
2006-11-13 13:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Redd Hott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋