I had a huge crush on this guy from school that i barely know. We hardly ever spoke and only occassionally greet each other in the hallways. I'm not even sure he knows my name. The crush started 5 years ago and i haven't seen him for 4 years. I'm not exactly pinning over him now. I just occassionally think about him and sometimes even dream about him at night. I always wake up feeling so happy but would feel depressed when i realise it's only a dream. The worst thing is i am rejecting all other guys who are interested in me because i keep comparing them with him. I know we probably will never meet again and even if we do there's no chance of us getting together. How can i forget about him?
2006-11-13 05:25:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give some other guys a chance! You never actually knew the guy, so you don't even know if he was a total jerk or not. Just give some other guys a try and don't compare! Everyone is different and you certainly don't won't to miss out on an oppurtunity of a lifetime over some guy that you may not ever see again.
2006-11-13 05:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Rosalind55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to get over a crush even if it was just a small one and you never dated because your going to think about it occassionally its just something you cant avoid but in your situation the only way for you to move on is to start dating other people I know what you mean when you say you compare others to him and a lot of girls have the same problem I know I do sometimes but you cant let that get in the way because your never going to find someone just like him so its a lost cause. Find a boy that has maybe a few qualities as this past crush and be happy because like I said no one is exactly alike. Dont put your life on hold because of the past and maybe you can find what your looking for in the future. Good luck with everything.
2006-11-13 05:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I had kind of the same problem as you do. And how did I get over her? Well I took my courage in both hands and phoned her to know. There was some history but I didn't see her for 2 years and I couldn't get over her so I did it! She was clear about the all story. she had met a guy and she was happy and so on, It did hurt but I found myself relieved and free again( not directly of course). You're in love with the ideal guy because you don't know him. try to find his contact-adress or phone-number or arrange a meeting or I don't know but go face forward without thinking to know him or to know his heart-situation.
Later I met a girl and I didn't react because I told to myself "she's taken" I found her email and contacted her and she answered very kindly that she didn't remember me + that she was getting married and buying a house. Answers like that are very efficient to get over a crush. A crush to replace another ;-)
2006-11-13 05:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Appearance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy nonetheless has a image of an ex love nonetheless with him than he could nonetheless have some emotions for her. although if the guy is starting up to get severe with the lady in question then supply him a probability to eliminate the %. The male coronary heart is loopy as hell and alot of females run away even as they get scared. i'd supply him a probability to get on the point of you and then he gained't care about his ex or the image. And NO i don't think of through him exhibiting you the percentthat he's telling you to bypass. i imagine thats his way of exhibiting you to go back after him. reliable good fortune.
2016-11-23 19:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot call it a crush at this point. You have to admit that if you can stand anyone because u compare them with "dude" it is just because you are in love. I think you should love yourself more thatn somebody who does not know you name. Love yourself enought to go out there and give a chance to somebody else who actually cares.
2006-11-13 05:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mimiche 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to forget about him, you just have to make a conscious effort to change the way you look at him. He can still remain an untouchable hottie in your dreams and your secret fantasy guy.
What you do need to change is the way you compare him to other men. Accept that he is unobtainable and that you need to move on. Its not fair to yourself to compare other men to him. You could potentially be missing your future partner.
2006-11-13 05:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way to forget about a guy.....other than replacing him with another. you just have to let those feelings go and try and start over with another....
2006-11-13 05:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by vgplamondon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
4 get about him
2006-11-13 05:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by tymeydee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Avoid him and occupy your mind with something else.
2006-11-13 05:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do different things, go out more with your friends
2006-11-13 05:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by Texas Made! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋