im afraid that im making hard to have a relationship with a guy because im afraid to be with him intimately
2006-11-13 05:00:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel like this going to happen in all my relationships if the word comes up because im afraid to do it because i have heard that it hurt
2006-11-13 05:01:20 · update #1
If a guy cannot wait until marriage or atleast long enough for you to be comfortable. Then he is not worth having anyways. Wait, find that special guy, don't waste it.
It does hurt at first; but, it gets better.
2006-11-13 05:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by Alibi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never do anything that you aren't comfortable with. You can explain when the guy brings it up, that you aren't comfortable yet and if he's not okay with that, you probably sholdn't stay with him. It sometimes hurts the first time, but it also feels good. Also, it doesn't hurt after that, so it's not going hurt each and every time you choose to have sex.
2006-11-13 05:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by VB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly natural to be scared of the unknown... I'm glad that fear has served you well to keep you out of the sexual circle.
Find the right guy who loves you for you. He'll wait until you get married and you'll have a special relationship with HIM. Giving him something that is precious. You ought to be proud!!!
Sex is NOT a form of love. You can love someone and not have sex with them. So keep the emotional baggage to a minimum and don't have sex until marriage. My best advice. Trust me, you'll be happier that you did.
2006-11-13 05:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you get the right guy you will know it because you wont think about how the sex will feel,if it will hurt or not,you will want to enjoy the pleasures with him because he make you feel good.so i would say go with your gut and when the right one comes along your gut will let you know.but you gotta also be aware of smooth talkers who tell you what you want to hear.
2006-11-13 05:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by alexander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cannot wait for sex until the right time, then you won't be missing anything. If he thinks your worth waiting for he will. Otherwise he just wanted to get in your pants and then dump you for his next challange. Hold your head high and keep your self respect. Don't throw it away to "please" someone else. Good luck to ya! GaryT
2006-11-13 05:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby let me tell you, Im not going to lie.....It hurts at first, but when you get use to it, you feel it again.....until the next day probably...But wat i can tell you is make sure he is the right person and he doesnt leave you after he hits it.....because later on you will regret it.....okay? stop, think, breathe....its up to you...love always and forever ~kreme~
2006-11-13 05:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
expain that you r un comfertable
2006-11-13 05:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by disturbedpunkrocker98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋