2gether 2 months intimately. saw eachother every day. like boyfriend/girlfriend, although that was never verbally confirmed. he has 8 yr old daughter & was on/off with baby momma for 9 years. he loves his daughter to death & sees her weekends. baby momma is a b****, puts the kid in the middle & uses her 2 get 2 him. so after 2 months, both of us saying we really like eachother & love hanging out, he tells me he cant see/talk 2 me anymore but cant tell me why, says he really dont wanna do this but he has to-its gotta be like this now-he is so sorry. 2 days later & ever since, he still calls me a few times a week & we do hang out even. but he still insists on me not calling him, he cant have a serious girl right now, etc. it dont make sense 2 me. i tell him how i feel & he knows its not fair 2 me. I believe he is once again trying to appease the baby momma by trying with her again, & he knows it wont work, so hangs on 2 me. all i want is truth. what do u think?
2006-11-13 04:58:42 · 6 answers · asked by nic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's still with baby's momma, or atleast trying to be. YOU'RE his insurance policy ib case it doesn't work out (again). Time for you to FLY!
You can't call because babymomma will be answering the phone, and the can't have a serious relationship thing, well it's an excuse to keep you on hold. He may be telling you the truth but if that was the case you should be able to call.
He may be confused as to what he really wants, you, or his daughter. If it's his daughter, he will play babysmomma for as long as SHE can stand, then he will be knocking at your door when shes had all she can stand.
If it is you that he wants, then he should be "doing" you at night, every night, and not just calling you to keep you available in case things don't work with babysmomma!
2006-11-13 05:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by konstipashen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you this sweetie but he is using you and enjoying it because you are letting him do it . tell this loser goodbye and dont call you anymore ok?Yes he has alot of baggage and is still seeing the babys mother and i dont care what he told you we all here can see right through this one. He is a jerk move on with your life and find someone who will appreciate you. good luck and god bless and happy thanksgiving.
2006-11-13 13:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing head games with you. Stop excepting his phone calls and write him off. It's not worth the emotional stress. Life is too short.
2006-11-13 13:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by eightieschic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has another girl there and she answers the phone, or maybe he thinks ur needy and would be calling constantly. I don't know sorry, hope this helps
2006-11-13 13:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't call him becuase he's back with the kid's mom. Don't answer his calls and move on. He's using you.
2006-11-13 13:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still F****** his baby's mama. You need to find someone that doesn't have so much baggage and baby mama drama.
2006-11-13 13:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by KokoCutie272006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋