If you were 35 years old were divorced and had 3 kids and bipolar disorder would you continue to have a friends with benefits relationship with a slightly older man who has a girlfriend he has been living with for 3 years in hope he may leave her?
I don't have much time these days to have a proper relationship but I have still having casual sex with other people without him knowing. I have also been having sex with a 24 year old guy who knows about this other guy but he says he is really into me and cares for me, he is so nice and single but I don't know what to do. Should I tell him about all the other guys I am with and risk breaking his heart and wait for other guy or go for him?
2006-11-13 04:53:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry but I dont think you should be having sex with anyone. How can you do that to people? One word for you....TRASHY. You need to invest in some masterbation toys and stop playing with people's hearts. Shameful you have chlidren. Hope they never see what you do. No child needs to know their mom is trashy.
2006-11-13 04:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Summer H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a dilemma.
On this hand, you have a slightly older man who has a g/f. On the other hand, you have a 24 y/o. Both seem content to have sex with you. You've got other guys to have sex with and none really committed to you.
I think the slightly older guy is a pipe dream at best. You have a naive 24 y/o who doesn't know about the other men.
I think you should drop all the other guys, go for the 24 y/o... When asked about other guys... Just say, "I've been around the block a couple of times to know what I'm doing. You don't need to know where I've been... Just focus on where we are going."
2006-11-13 13:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sooner or later this 24 year old guy will have enough you and children.People have no idea how many problems is with children. Young guy like him gonna step back.
My wife is 2 years older and she has son now 10 years old.i met her 6 years ago and she asked me if i knew what i was in to.
I was so in love that everything seemed so easy.Now i know she is not happy and her son also.If you really feel that he will give you support than go for it.I started dream to have my own child but i can`t imagine have it with my wife.
2006-11-13 13:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by ROBERT M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to start thinking more about your children and less about who or many guys you are sleeping with. Also, why did youmention bipolar disorder? Is that your excuse for acting like trash? This is a treatable mental health issue.
I hope that your children find a stronger moral compass than you or are at least a whole lot less selfish.
2006-11-13 12:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell him, as long as your faithful once you are serious with the 24 year old then what does it matter to him. I wouldn't wait for the other guy either. Is there any hope that he would break up with his girl? Probably not, in that case go for the single one
2006-11-13 12:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would stop having sex with so many men . You need to find just one to have a relationship with. I hope you use protection because of the many diseases out there.
2006-11-13 12:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by red1967 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In short, you've made your bed and it's time to lie in it.
Simply being honest and up front from the beginning - with all the men you're seeing - would save you the hassle of having to get to this point and dealing with the aftermath from each of them.
Now, instead of potentially having your cake and eating it too, you're going to burn one bridge, possibly both, in the hopes of saving either one of them...maybe.
2006-11-13 13:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you dont sound like your looking for a mans heart.
2006-11-13 12:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by april showers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello
Choose your self!
But your self and what you want first and that will always lead you to what is going to make you happy.
2006-11-13 12:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should not tell him and brake up with the other guys or brake up with him and keep the other folks
2006-11-13 12:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by disturbedpunkrocker98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋