1st, she's a friend of a friend and i've met her before. Last time I went up town, she was out and we got chatting about all sorts of things. We got on really well.
I then found out through our mutual friend that she has split up from her boyfriend, and then a day or so later, I got a text off her asking how I was doing.
We've text and emailed a few times since, but im not sure how I should take things, should I ask her out on a date, should I play it cool and wait to see if she asks first.
My friend says she does like me, but I feel she is too pretty for me!
2006-11-13 04:47:33 · 19 answers · asked by zefram_cochrane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why dont you text her and ask if she fancies goin for a drink, play it cool though.
2006-11-13 04:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by box 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she's interested, otherwise she wouldn't be texting or emailing you. Don't worry about her looks, girls don't care so much about that - her previous boyfriend was probably handsome but arrogant, so now maybe she just wants someone who makes her laugh.
You need to get face to face... text and email will only get you so far.
And the safest way is to get her to come out with you in a group...
So, organise a night out with a group of your friends (not all blokes of course) - if your mutual friend(s) can come then so much the better - and invite her along by text or email
play it cool... eg. "we're all going to xxx... wanna come??"
this way you get to talk to her face to face and interpret the signs a lot easier. And you never know, you may get a snog.
2006-11-13 13:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by edouardo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put yourself down if she likes you she must find you attractive . saying that to her will make you sound insecure
if she wasn't interested in you she wouldn't text or email you
this means she likes you however you need to establish
1. how long were they together , how did it end , is she positive about the breakup
if i were you i would ask her out maybe with a few friends so it doesn't seem like a date which will help establish the above. if all goes well then ask her out on a proper date
2006-11-13 12:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Well I think it sounds like she likes you, she would not have bothered to text or email if she didn't!! So if you like her, go for it and ask her out for a drink, or a movie if you prefer as that type of 'date' is not too intense, but you can suggest a drink after the movie. If she goes for a drink afterwards she is very interested! Good luck!
2006-11-13 13:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by Susie Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The primary Question you need to answer is she the one you wany to have children with. Do not let perceived beauty cloud your answer. If your answer is yes, be proactive, Nothing ventured gained. if you feel she deserves the best, do not believe you will be jealous, she does not become demanding and you have like interests and expectations, by all means take the bull by the horns, ask her out and see what happens. I let one go and since learned that I let THE one that was for me go AND SHE HAs long since gone from this life.
2006-11-13 13:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Larry Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP BEING SO INSECURE!!!!! She's initiated enough by texting you first.. If you have an idea that she likes you, it would be the gentleman-ly thing to do to ask her out.. don't wait on it and make her ask... and stop putting yourself down.. too pretty for you, why???? Man up, and ask the girl out...
2006-11-13 13:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it man... you will never know if you will not try. You might regret it if you play cool... she might be waiting for you to make the first move. Sometimes you will end up losing a lot by palying it cool and reserved
2006-11-13 15:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Trixter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to ask as long as you can handle the rejection if that is the outcome. If it isn't then you might have a great time out.
2006-11-13 12:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this girl broke up with her boyfriend and starts talking to you right away that means something. And yous talk to each other on your own. that means something.
duh... ask her out on a date what are you waiting for??
2006-11-13 12:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude dont down youself! what do you mean too prety for you?! Dont you thinkyou deserv the best ? Now go ahed and ask her out its obviouse she likes you!
2006-11-13 12:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by peachypeach746 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her,then ask her out.if you wait around she could move on to someone else.if your gut is telling you that you think she likes you go with it.next time you two get to texting each other,send her a text asking her if she wants to go out,dont think about it just do it!
2006-11-13 12:54:32 · answer #11 · answered by alexander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋