Last week we spoke for about 40 minutes to clear things up. I sent her roses last week and no answer. I spoke with her this morning and she said thank you for the roses and not to send anymore. She was kinda short with me. I told her my birthday was this weekend and that I would like to have her company for a cup of coffee. She said we have nothing to talk about, and that she was leaving on vacation and she had a lot to do. I asked her to think about and she said, "there's nothing to think about". I asked for 15 minutes of her time and she said that she would try to change somethings around. I asked if I could call her tomorrow at 5 pm and she said, "No, I'll call you to see if I can". Help? what to make of this.
2006-11-13 04:39:55 · 28 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has moved on with her life. It is time for you to do the same. She is clearly not interested in a relationship or trying to patch things up.
2006-11-13 04:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my honest opinion she's not happy with something you did or said. You need to sit and htink what you did. Not a half *** thought process, but REALLY put your heart into it. What did or could you have done or said to make her not want to see or talk to you at all. By the sounds of it you really hurt her alot or you've been doing things she's been asking oyu to change and she got sick of telling you to change and decided to leave. If that's the case all is lost and it would take a miracle to get her back (I know because I dated a guy for 2 years who didn't change, that was 3 years ago and occationally he still trys even though he's changed his whole life). If you hurt her badly she may need some spae and she may come around. But some women are different. She may never come around. Let her have some time. Give her a couple weeks.
2006-11-13 04:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't push her buttons. She is very clear as to what and/or whom she doesn't want. From her standpoint, it looks like you're trying to worm your way back into her life. And if you keep it up, she may even see it as harassment.
If you need someone to spend your birthday with, try some of your buddies that you've been hanging out with recently. They could be a lot of fun- think a night of football and wings for your special day.
2006-11-13 04:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to tell you that she doesn't want to spend time with you. She has given you a clear "no", but you kept pushing so she said what she had to so that you'd get off the phone. Leave her alone, she will call you if she wants to talk.
2006-11-13 04:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by francesfarmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely she's not into you that's why she avoids you. I suggest that you leave her alone. She's not worth your time and neither do you have to waste yours on her. Forget her and move on! You seem like a nice guy, any woman would be happy to have you. She will someday realize how much you meant to her and by that time, you will have forgotten her. Good luck finding someone better.
2006-11-13 04:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's obvious that she is upset about something that you did or said. She needs sometimes alone and to think. you need to give her some space for her to think. maybe she is going through a hard time at this moment. By giving her space for her own, she will clear her mind and make her best descision. maybe she'll call you later on. she just need some space.
2006-11-13 04:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by nedjine05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She either has moved on or is trying to. I assume that she broke up with you. You are not a couple any more and you need to find a way to move on too. I know it isn't the best thing to hear but its the truth.
2006-11-13 04:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by sschro9131 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you just need to move on, she is no longer interested in you, so you need to respect that. For your birthday you should try going out with your friends or something to that nature to keep yourself busy and have a good time. Good luck.
2006-11-13 04:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by lilli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's done with the relationship. You should move on. She's telling you she'll call you to get you to stop bothering her about it. Sorry buddy. You should find someone who wants you as much as you want her and this chick isn't that girl.
2006-11-13 04:47:01 · answer #9 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is trying to tell you its over and she wants some space. Sorry honey. My advice is leave her alone. Don't call/write/email/text. Give it time and try to be friends later if that is what you both want.
2006-11-13 04:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by ginyamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋