They think it is too strange. She is 6'2" and over 325. I'm 6 inches shorter and just under 100 with a toothpick frame. She isn't fat and is very powerful, she works in a physical job loading truck/containers. Plus she is 15 years younger.
She gets turned on by overpowering me at home and is very physical which I'm not. She approached me for a relationship, I was intimidated by her initially. I'm very generous with her. Compared to her, I am financially secure and at first I thought that was her attraction.
She likes watching me do things I can't physically like hikes or lifting her free weights. When I was trembling, she let me stop. This always leads to the bedroom. I don't know if this is her fetish and just an object in the wrong relationship. This weekend she wants to chop wood for the fireplace. Should I do it or say no.? She knows I won't be able to.
2006-11-13 04:38:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea she obviously has a fetish. just do what she wants and enjoy the sex.
2006-11-13 04:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by s w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say "go for it" and have fun except for one little thing that you said. You said you were "trembling and she LET you stop." It sounds to me like she's a dominatrix, which is fine and a lot of fun if you're into that. BUT, it only works if both parties are in the game. See if she would be up for a physical challenge where you're in charge. Tie her to a cart and make her pull you around, I don't know.....use your imagination. The best "Master/Servent" relationships work when the parties are willing to mix it up. Otherwise, she might just be really domineering and not very nice.
2006-11-13 12:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's into men she can overpower. Nothing wrong with it if your into women that can overpower you. (I dunno but your discription makes me picture a giant..like some huge amazon chick.) If you like her then you shouldn't worry about what other people think or say. Your only 6" shorter, that's not much, I mean if you were 5'10" then it may be a little weird but your not. I say go for it, I've seen weirder looking couples...I work in NYC..you would not believe the weirdos I see. and plus, it really doesnt sounds that bad, I think maybe your friends are making it a much bigger deal than it realy is or should be.
2006-11-13 12:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by SexyMommy2B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them there is more to love.You have more to hang onto then just the skin and bones of the girls that starve themselves to try to look like a model. I see all these stick and bones women out here that look like crap. I am a large size women and my boyfriend loves me for me and not my looks. I am not ugly I am a large women. Good luck!!!! Beauty is only skin deep and do what you want.
2006-11-13 12:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has a fetish for being in power and control. If that works for you, so be it. But you don't sound like you are enjoying what is happening, so maybe she isn't for you. It's entirely based on whatever you choose and enjoy.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-11-13 12:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like her? Than theres your answer..if you said ys than continue dating her if you said no well than you should move on...but i always think its neat to see couple totally unmatched physically than you know they are genuine about the realtionship. As long as your happy and having fun stick with it!!!
2006-11-13 12:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by CaSeY LyNe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her and enjoy her company, then yes! Maybe if you look beyond the surface, you can see what lies underneath!
2006-11-13 12:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you truly like each other? if so, who cares what other people think. She sounds kind of like a freak though but hey, if you are both that attracted to each other then....carry on!!!!
2006-11-13 12:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am gonna tell you straight up "Do What You Do" don't let anybody tell you , you can't date a big women if you like what you see stay with it if your friends don't like what they see that there own problem not yours Aight!!!! Holla
2006-11-13 12:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by Esther M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you happy with the way things are going? Is she happy with the way things are going?
They follow your bliss
2006-11-13 12:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋