my boyfriend and my friend have "history" together. they did have sex but as soon as they did he dumped her. he said that she wasnt her type and that he hates her. but he talks to her all the time and she calls all the time. should i be mad and worry or should i sit back and see what happens? he tells me all the time how much he appreciates me and how much more he likes me than her. i just need some good advise.
2006-11-13 04:05:30 · 10 answers · asked by bryanna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let it ride
2006-11-13 04:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Saints friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't have sex with him. Second, ask yourself whether you talk "all the time" to people you hate? Do people you hate tend to phone you a lot? He's lying to you and you are in line to get hurt if you don't see it. You may decide to sit back and watch to see what happens, but watch it as a spectator and don't get involved because he can't be trusted.
2006-11-13 12:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel that u don't like them talking all the time especially since they had a past. He might understand. Also talk to her tell her how u feel or ask why do they talk so much don't be mad just concerned and tell them ure concerned.
2006-11-13 12:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand if he hates her like you said why are they still speaking.I'm sorry but that wouldn't fly with me because that's a second chance waiting to happen. If things ended on a sour note between them they shouldn't be communicating. It makes me think its not over between them, and I would think that when me and my man argue he is running to her for "advice and comfort"
2006-11-13 12:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by light skinned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would watch that very carefully... Things rarely are as innocent as they are made to sound. The more they say it isn't about sex, the more it usually is about sex. The more they compliment you, usually the more they are trying to cover guilt.
2006-11-13 12:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. everyone has a history. some people have sex and thats just the way it is. but if he did that to her, what do you think will stop him from doing that to you.
2006-11-13 12:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says he hates her... and talks to her all the time he's obviously lying!
If he would't have said that, things would have been diferent.
Why don't you find a guy you're just friends and talk to him all the time... and see how he feels about that!
2006-11-13 12:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by harieta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be mad... but mad at yourself, not him.
My advise is that you cut this guy loose and move on.
2006-11-13 12:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Wedding Crasher 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just chill. dont over think it. only act upon it when something happens. ;)
2006-11-13 12:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by K&E4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-11-13 12:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋